i love him but its hard to deal with the fact that we live in different states and we cant have a normal relationship like most people. it bothers me more then him his more willing to stay with me its been over a year that we have had this relationship and weve had some serious problem but we have managed to get over them im young you see and i noe that once i get into college or work more hours its going to get even harder because where i live he wont find a job that suits him. i dont want to give up on us but i sont want to be a fool and catch more feeling waste more time if at the end of the day it might not work... so should i keep on with this relationship or let it go for my own sake
he even tells me at times that if i go and do better things i might find someone better then him
2007-03-21 02:09:51 · 11 answers · asked by nata s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we see each other every weekend we have tried to let go but we seem to keep running back to each other thats why im so scared is it possible that i may never let go.... to tell u the truth its like im not happy with him or without him or maybe im to young to to know what happiness is
2007-03-21 02:28:31 · update #1
It sounds like he is alright with your ending the relationship and it is taking a toll on both of you. If the relationship is not bringing you happiness than you are better off ending it.
I had a three year long distance relationship and by the end of the fourth year of the relationship it ended even though it had not been long distance for a year.
Go and have fun and learn about yourself and make new friends. If the relationship is permanent it will come back. Otherwise, you will meet someone else and you will do just fine.
Take care,
Troy
2007-03-21 03:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly this is a question only you can answer. How often do you see him i would ask? other than that you're not even in college so he is right you have a great opportunity to meet alot of other people. personally i think you are way to young to be in this kinda relationship. i'd at least try taking a break from the relationship and seeing what happens. i think you'll find that you are better off
2007-03-21 02:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by wutzcrackinb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are billions upon billions of men on Earth. Somehow, I think the world may be able to keep spinning if you leave him. It will save a lot of wasted time, money, and effort. Think of how relieved you'll feel knowing you don't have to deal with all of this worry?
Drop the guy, get some friends together, take a trip to Jimmy Buffet's Margaritaville, and enjoy yourself.
2007-03-21 02:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has already left you. He has hinted this in his mesages. He no longer wishes to continue and hopes you find someone else to stop pestering him.
Open your eyes to the others around you, or go on the Net and find someone to talk to there.
Do not eat yourself over something that never was that solid. He would not have left in the FIRST place if you had been LOVED by him!
He never REALLY loved you then.
Life is too short to suffer for long periods,...it affects your self-asteem.
You are a sensitive loving soul,...go find someone to share with, and open these questions to them and find the one who is LOOKING for YOU at this very MOMENT!!
2007-03-21 03:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by cullentoons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD !!!!!
if your that young, let it go, go out have some real fun and date as many as you safely can, enjoy your younger years, soon as you get older you will meet the right one and things will slow down to the good
2007-03-21 02:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go, there are so many people out there for you to meet. Go out and have fun without that stress in your life. If it is meant to be, you will come together later in life.
2007-03-21 02:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Peach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your talking about i lived in ny and mu husband in sc 16 hrs away it was really hard. but if you really love him then you have to be strong because now there are going tho be guys around that you might want to get with that are coming around now and not before. so just be strong
2007-03-21 02:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it very hard to love a man who 's far from u! think about, what u realy need, and make a decision. i think, that it ll be better to forget about him. 'cose i have such a situation, too. But its ur life, u could do whatever u like!
2007-03-21 02:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by Guly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he ain't the only man alive!!
And I don't believe in long distance relationship.
Out of sight out of mind...I truly believe this...Move on..be happy!
2007-03-21 02:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to let it go.
2007-03-21 02:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋