ok so i see lots of ummm not so hot guys with cute girls all the time....i'm athletic but not all that good looking just about average which makes it very hard to meet girls....so how do i get a cute girls attention and get them to go out with me?
2007-03-21 02:17:39 · 16 answers · asked by jimbo fury 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Instead of coming off as desperate act like you're interested in making friends. Try acting like you don't want a girlfriend, playing hard to get works both ways. And above all always be yourself, if a girl doesn't like you for yourself, why would you want to be with her anyways.
2007-03-21 02:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Chenielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't be shy about it. Most of the time, girls won't make the first move. They leave that up to the guy to do. If you are in a public place and you see a girl you like, like a bar or something, maybe start by buying her a drink or asking her to dance. Start small ya know? And about your comment about cute girls being seen with not so good looking guys, a lot of girls will go for the "average" guy because the great looking guys are usually the ones that have "Wandering eyes" if you know what i mean. they know they look good and could have any girl, so most of the time they do. I 'm not saying ALL guys are like that, but from experience....trust me, I know what I'm talking about. An "average" guy is least likely to treat their woman that way. Good luck! :)
2007-03-21 09:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by nuniestar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont feel confident enought in ur self try working on that looks arent everything be yourself that attracts em like bees to honey and why onl cute girls how bout a few average ones ucould b missing the diamonds in the rough
2007-03-21 09:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be bold talk to them get to know new people and just simply ask if one of them wants to go out for a coffee or something i am sure you will find someone but you dont always find them when you are looking:] be sure to make sure to be friends first but with some interest in being more just take your time and get to know a few girls you never know even if they arent personally interested in you if your a sweet guy I KNOW that theyw ill tell their friends about you good luck!
2007-03-21 09:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by mypupismylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put yourself down there are enough people out there to do that, firstly talk the girl you like, ask about her show an interest, then ask her out. its not just about looks, its also about whether you get on and a chemistry between the two. what Simonne finds attractive others don't.
2007-03-21 09:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by RACHEL B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be confident and yourself. If you want a specific girl's attention you could try sending her flowers or candy. Good Luck!
2007-03-21 09:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by jbug742 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want JUST cute girls?
Looks are not that important.
2007-03-22 09:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by celia3018 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself you will find the right person for you. If you act like someone else just to get a date they will adventually see through it and leave ya.
2007-03-21 09:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try it many, many times in front of the mirror, and ask your friends for some advice:)
2007-03-21 09:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Bojana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By keeping it real. I can hear a pick up line or a sincere conversation. We just want it real!
2007-03-21 09:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by milo2angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋