Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

k me n my boyfriend just broke up..we been going out on and off for about 2 years now....we argue alllll the time..and break up over it...and then go back out that night or the very next day..well we broke up again bc of arguing and its been like 4 days now and we still arent back together...i told him i dont wana let him get in the habit of being able to dump me n expect ill date him again..bc he is the one who always dumps me...ne ways..he wants 2 date again right now, but my ex boyfriend wants to date again 2, also my twin sister n her boyfriend want me to date another guy. I dont know wether i should keep going bak to my old boyfriend, my ex, or the new guy...heres some things about them:
>boy of 2 years off n on> out of school in college, car, emotional, but can be controlling, i think i still love him
>ex boyfriend> still in skool w me..football..no license yet, grade under me
>new boy>basketball, funny, dirtbike racer, license truck, grade under me, sis's boyfriends best friend

2007-03-21 01:25:35 · 13 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2 in Singles & Dating

How many of u married women here feels left over by their husband?? what u do if u feel like that and when u cant left him coz u loved him so much.is it true that slowly ur feelings towards him also changes?
How it is posible that once v love some one so much n d very next day v forget everything?

2007-03-21 01:25:04 · 8 answers · asked by sherry 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I havent kissed a guy yet. This girl started laughing at me yesterday because I havent kissed a guy. It hurt my feelings. also, this girl called me prued!!!!! That really hurt!!! I dont know what to do????

2007-03-21 01:24:20 · 10 answers · asked by softballover6 2 in Singles & Dating

my partners brother is 13 and very unhappy at home he wants to come and live with us in Scotland(he lives in England). He was here on holiday last fortnight and didn't want to go home. He is living with his mum just now in very crampped conditions there are 7 people in a 3 bedroom house. He shares a room with his MUM and his 10yr old brother both boys sleep on the floor with no matress. He is fed up with the way he is treated by his mother, 28yr old sister and the lodger. His mum hits him and shouts at him. He told us the other day that he asked if he could live with his dad and was told no coz I will lose all the money I get. His mum got child tax credits through the other day of £250(which she gets weekly) she bought no shopping and said that the money was for the bills. SHE GETS HER RENT AND COUNCIL TAX PAID. the last time the kids got new clothes was lastyear the clothes they do wear have holes in.
What can be done if anything spoke to social services they are not interested help!

2007-03-21 01:22:47 · 20 answers · asked by DEBORAH A 2 in Family

We are both in our 30's-Went on first date, went really well. He calls me everyday, not to say much but hello. He jokes with me, ha ha... I joke with him, he gets crappy afterwards....He basically said some pretty mean things like if I am not happy then I should go see my ex...stuff like that. I apologized because my joking with him may have been really insulting but it was a joke! He was joking with me afterall-but then I really lay it down and he gets po'd. Then a day later he is all nice again and asking me out for Saturday...should I be concerned ? Is he crazy? Potentially abusive?

2007-03-21 01:22:19 · 11 answers · asked by Always PO'd 3 in Singles & Dating

If so, why do you think so (or not)? If so, how do you think this will trickle into everyday life (Men pushing the swiffer dust mops while women playing golf on Saturday mornings?)

2007-03-21 01:21:29 · 13 answers · asked by L.A. Scene 3 in Marriage & Divorce

was working out of town in Pensacola, fl. he even went so far as to video it and bring it home and hide it ! we have 2 children 8 &7. they are really disturbed by what their dad has done. i filed for a divorce the very next day, there is no telling how long it has been going on so how will i ever be able to trust a man again? he didn't even give a reason for him doing it other than "she was nice & friendly to him " most w****s are. how do i get over something this tragic & at the same time be strong for my kids? please only serious answers!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-21 01:19:55 · 35 answers · asked by jody 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 01:19:51 · 7 answers · asked by ILI ANA 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 01:18:29 · 12 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Friends

who all is single and happy? And ex plain why. thanks

2007-03-21 01:17:38 · 4 answers · asked by hello there 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi i luv a guy who is 29.i am 21.very recently my mom comitted suicid 4 no reasons. i am d the only daughter.dad is living ONLY 4 me.moms family is helping us. i am in luv wit a guy he is also sincerely in luv wit me.he is doin business he earns little and wit tat he has 2 tak care of his family.he has got many family problems.so i helped him by givin him money and jewels altho he didnt return it.he has mortgaged it and askin 4 money 2 tak back.v ve had sex.even in public he usd 2 giv me sexual pressures(i allowed it too) ours is a family who considers luv marriag as somethin very bad.he threatens me and asks me to tell my dad abt our affair.if i say no 2 him he ll scold me very badly.wen i told him someday i ll go away 4m him he ll star crying and even drinks at times.i kno he luvs me sincerely and me 2. but he always wants me 2 obey him.he is very possesive and he doesn lik guys talkin with me and me chattin.v r somewat financially strong.i think i am cheatin every1 around me help me

2007-03-21 01:17:36 · 15 answers · asked by anjana 1 in Singles & Dating

What happens if the reason that he fell out of love with you because you weren't yourself or the person he did fall in love with in the first place. I wasn't myself for the last year (we were living together this year) of a 3 year relationship because of me being scared of losing him. I did extreme measures to make him happy, like being available to him all the time, letting him do what he wants avoiding any serious conflict (basicly losing my independence and identity). The reason why i did this was because he had committment issues in the past with me which made me think that if did everything to make him happy i won't lose him, but then he dumps me teliing me that he wasn't happy in the last couple of months and doesn't feel the same way by doesn't know why. I still love him and I regret in what I have done (in my case in losing myself first and then second, losing him)

2007-03-21 01:17:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am/was seeing a Scorpio and its like everytime he's really inconsiderate and I tell him about it, he just blows me off and acts as if I'm wilding out on him and stops talking to me. He has broken up with me a total of 2 times now...this last time he did it via text and hasn't called me or anything. I really do love him and he had told me he lovd me too but I'm so lost in regards to why he always runs. Does he really not want this? Am I wasting my time? Is this typical Scorpio behaviour not to want to talk about anything? I feel like my heart strings are being pulled...help me please!

2007-03-21 01:16:52 · 3 answers · asked by MockingBird 3 in Singles & Dating

my boy friend says them and i want some good ones to tell him

2007-03-21 01:16:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and he lives on the other side of the world..

2007-03-21 01:16:36 · 19 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Friends

yes Mr Darcy has confirmed that he now 'bats for the other side' and has broke my heart...

2007-03-21 01:16:26 · 23 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

been together 10 yrs. Husband has been with new company for 6 months. He was invited to go out of the country with this company without spouses. I wasnt happy about this and didnt think he should go. After a month of fighting-he went.
Husaband has admitted to being attracted to one of the girls in the office (also married).
While he was gone, we talked a total of 20 mins. He was gone 4 days-and said he had a male roommate.
Hasnt told me what DID go on there-only the "bad" things that happened.
After coming home, i was unloading his suitcase and found out that he failed to bring his underwear back. When i asked him about it, he said he left it under the bed in the hotel. I called the hotol-its not there.
I havent said a whole lot, but my husband is now very distant and quite (usually a talker). We have had sex twice since his return and i am now very sick and cannot get over whatever it is he "brought" back.
I need the truth, and cant get it from him !!!

2007-03-21 01:16:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 01:14:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She liked me a lot about 2 months ago. We started hooking up about a month into her liking me. Everything was going great, then she got into a lot of trouble with her parents and school. Keep in mind were in college. I talked to her today asking if she was happy with everything. She told me she didn't know. She has ALOT on her mind and was stressed out I told her that I want to stay with her and that I shouldn't contribute to the stress by giving her space. She said she is on the fence though and doesn't know what she wants yet. I told her I would give her space and that I liked her a lot and would like to continue the relationship. She said ok, and we kissed about 12 times and i left.

2007-03-21 01:11:32 · 8 answers · asked by Dave n 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for three months and he moved in with me last night because his mom and him got into a physical fight...well actually his mom punched him in the face, the problem is he is really clingy and I've tried to explain it to him in the nicest way possible, but then he freaks out and starts saying things like I am going to break up with him. He then starts crying and freaking out even more. I love the boy but if he keeps acting like this, I fear that I will have no choice but to break up with him. How in the world could I explain to him that he is too clingy and he is suffocating me without him freaking out?

2007-03-21 01:10:55 · 7 answers · asked by twiztid_child_of_darkness 1 in Singles & Dating

Men are attracted to big breasts, women are attracted to sculpted pectoral muscles. Why?

2007-03-21 01:10:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 6 months is 28 and quite racist, i find it really annoying as it seems he is fine with people from different races as long as they are doing something that will benefit him..i.e he knows a chinese guy who owns a chip shop that he goes to and is quite friendly with him, but if we see a person from another race walking down the street that he doesnt know, he either tries to immitate them or says things under his breathe about them.

I know a lot of this has come from the fact that he lives with his grandparents and has done for most of his life, his grandfather is extremely racist as well.

I have spoken to my bf about this many times and have repeatedly told him that i am not happy with him doing these things, how else can i stop him being like this? I am so sure he wouldnt be so bad if he lived away from his grandparents, but he refuses to leave them.

HELP!

2007-03-21 01:09:30 · 27 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 01:09:05 · 18 answers · asked by naresh r 1 in Family

nod their head as if to say yes, but don't verbally say yes - does it still mean YES?

I asked someone out and their immediate reaciton was a nod and a huge grin.

2007-03-21 01:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He's loving, kind etc. but goes out till the early hours of the morning at least two nnights a week. His friends organise club nights and he usually goes to those. The problem is that he's invited me out 3 times since we've been together, even when he knows I want to go out he wont say anything about me coming along. Their social group includes girls as well so its definately not just a guy group.
Its having a really negative effect on my self-esteem, I feel like Im not good enough to be around them or something. Special occasions such as nye he also just says 'im going out' and doesnt think of me. Ive talked to him, written a letter, cried. I just dont get it but the more I make an issue of it the more I resent him and the more rude he is about it.
Help?

2007-03-21 01:07:49 · 18 answers · asked by naamski 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 01:07:18 · 6 answers · asked by hopeless 1 in Singles & Dating

This is not a one night stand

2007-03-21 01:07:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ying for the reasons he is doing so ). When I tried to move out yesterday he stopped me saying that he loved me and that he would marry me and everything. I really love him and want him to work but what is going on with his behaviour ? What do I need to do to get him to marry me sooner ?

2007-03-21 01:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married August 18 of this summer. I have not done anything to start to plan except for a few ideas. I just got engaged. Do I have enough time to plan a wedding or do I need to postpone it a few months?? What is the average time to plan a wedding???

2007-03-21 01:06:00 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Weddings

My friend says yes but i say no. Please help!

2007-03-21 01:04:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends