She liked me a lot about 2 months ago. We started hooking up about a month into her liking me. Everything was going great, then she got into a lot of trouble with her parents and school. Keep in mind were in college. I talked to her today asking if she was happy with everything. She told me she didn't know. She has ALOT on her mind and was stressed out I told her that I want to stay with her and that I shouldn't contribute to the stress by giving her space. She said she is on the fence though and doesn't know what she wants yet. I told her I would give her space and that I liked her a lot and would like to continue the relationship. She said ok, and we kissed about 12 times and i left.
2007-03-21 01:11:32 · 8 answers · asked by Dave n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. better say ur fear to her straight
2007-03-21 01:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's saying she doesn't know what she wants then leaving her alone is a good choice. At this point, you've got to gain a little control over the situation because she's holding all the cards. YOU'RE waiting to see if she handles her problems. YOU'RE waiting on her to decide what she wants. YOU'RE giving her space. Look @ the things you've agreed to do. What's she doing for you @ this point? Time to take a little control back. Let her contact you, and don't ask her about her problems anymore. If she doesn't contact you for a week or so; go to the next keg party and meet someone who's fun. Men watch Sportscenter for a reason. We hate soap operas; and it sounds like to me you're right in the middle of a bad episode of General Hospital. That keg party idea is sounding better and better by the moment.
2007-03-21 01:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by The Icon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have done the most courageous, kindest thing in my opinion. Sometimes when you have multiple stressors in your life, everyone and everything gets jumbled up in the chaos. I would give her the space you spoke about...it is the wisest decision. As the saying goes...you cannot make someone love you or want you. Give this time and let her contact you. It will go much better in my opinion.
2007-03-21 01:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very understanding.
Give her space but see to it that u r in touch with her. Or else the space will be so much that someone else will occupy it.
2007-03-21 01:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows what is happening here. Just make sure you are not hounding her. If it takes too long then it is over.
2007-03-21 01:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read what u wrote, the answer is clear. U deserve better.
2007-03-21 01:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing to scared about as long as u know how to be her best boyfriend.
2007-03-21 01:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her time an space.......everything will be okay...............good luck you two...................
2007-03-21 01:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by night_age_germany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋