This is not a one night stand
2007-03-21 01:07:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure not OK. if u do it what next step !!
2007-03-21 03:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, it is a one night stand. Unless you continue to see this person after. If there is a relationship that develops, it will probably fail later. And I'm not just being an ****** either. I was in a serious relationship with a woman that I slept with, within the first 3 hours of meeting. It lasted for a few years before it started to go sideways. I'm just not sure that sex is a good foundation to build a healthy relationship on. Maybe if we were friends first things would have went differently, but I am sure it ended because we slept with each other so quickly. We were very attracted to each other, and the sex was awesome but it was more lust than love, although love developed later but we should have been friends first.
Anyway, that was my experience, people have different experiences that this, so I can't say for sure. Just sharing mine.
2007-03-21 08:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a good idea. You have to make sure the guy respects you and that you respect yourself and putting out on the first date is no way to earn respect. I am not going to lie I did it once and quickly realized soon after that it was a big mistake. Sex is something that should not be taken lightly. There are too many STD's out and too many other risk involved. I would wait until you are sure and comfortable with it. It may not be a one night stand for you but you have to make sure it is not a one night stand for him as well. Just respect yourself and hopefully he will as well. There is no set time limit to when you should have sex. Only you know when it is the right time. Good luck!!
2007-03-21 08:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes.....hehe
serously though - if u have a strong connection with someone sex is the next step. The first few dates or times you meet someone is just the process of finding out if there is a connection - if you already know... just skip ahead
sex is a good thing and if you find someone u like, waiting those '3 dates' or however many is the rule, your just playing by the rules and conforming - be a rebel....... and do it. hehe
2007-03-21 08:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Che 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know it isn't a one night stand if you sleep with them on the first date?
I would never under any circumstances sleep with someone I just met you need to get to know them first.
2007-03-21 08:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is your decision. But it probably would be helpful to make sure you are compatible on more than a physical level. I know of plenty of folks who have slept with someone the second or first time they went out and the basis of the relationship was sexual rather than establishing a base of friendship, mutality and trust. But everyone has the right to make their own decision on this subject. I know it has not worked for me. Great sex..problems outside the bedroom.
2007-03-21 08:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not! Whether it is a one night stand or not it will make you look cheap and sleazy. Not to be rude or offensive but this is how the world and boys will see it
2007-03-21 08:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the trust that you have for that person, the chemistry between the two of you and what you both are looking to get out of it...also if you have been talking on the phone alot and you know alot about them and have an open line of communication then I would say ok, now if there are any doubts in your mind about anything then I wouldn't do it.
2007-03-21 10:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to do this as long as you don't mind not seeing them again--or if it's not a one night stand, it'll just be a "friends with benefits" kind of situation.
2007-03-21 08:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that once and will never make the same mistake twice its just not worth it, i ended i getting hurt so did she as the relationship only lasted 2 weeks.
2007-03-21 08:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although i have had that kind of urge i never have because i wouldn't want the guy to think that I'm easy but I'm not knocking people who do it's just in my opinion it's better not to only because of the guy feeling that you might be too easy.
2007-03-21 08:12:04 · answer #11 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋