three boys?

Question

k me n my boyfriend just broke up..we been going out on and off for about 2 years now....we argue alllll the time..and break up over it...and then go back out that night or the very next day..well we broke up again bc of arguing and its been like 4 days now and we still arent back together...i told him i dont wana let him get in the habit of being able to dump me n expect ill date him again..bc he is the one who always dumps me...ne ways..he wants 2 date again right now, but my ex boyfriend wants to date again 2, also my twin sister n her boyfriend want me to date another guy. I dont know wether i should keep going bak to my old boyfriend, my ex, or the new guy...heres some things about them:
>boy of 2 years off n on> out of school in college, car, emotional, but can be controlling, i think i still love him
>ex boyfriend> still in skool w me..football..no license yet, grade under me
>new boy>basketball, funny, dirtbike racer, license truck, grade under me, sis's boyfriends best friend

Answer 1

definitely the first guy, you still have emotional feeling with him, you know each other very well, and his status is better than the other two. but now tell him, this is probably the last one. you guys should be able to learn things you've been through in the past 2 years. otherwise, you'll experience the same thing because no matter who he is, or who you are, if you're not moving on to the next step, you'll always be stuck with the same problem. and for both of you: grow up and dont do the same mistakes again, and work it out. there's no such things as soul mates--good relationship happens when two persons cooperate and work things out. nobody's perfect, filling each other is what is important.

tips: i wouldn't recommend you dating younger guys. you're going backward instead of going forward. younger guys tend to "explore" to try new things. they're like lil boys. you wouldnt wanna date a lil boy, would ya?

Answer 2

I would say start with the new boy, just be friends!! Go to his bb games and strike up a conversation about dirt bikes. If the guy you have been previously dating is very emotional and controlling, it would not be good for you if you went out with him again. Your ex boyfriend, ummm, he's your ex!! If you don't like him say no!!! I like to start fresh and even if you don't go out with this new guy, you can still be friends!! Good Luck!

Answer 3

wow. last night me and my boyfriend ..off and on for over 2 years broke up or atleast i think we did. we never have big arguements, just small ones and sometimes end up breaking up. and also he is the one to always break up with me. i have never done it to him. but the previous time we broke up for like 3months of something like that and he said last night that things were different and he said he loves me but differently or something...ahhh im so confused lol. i love him so much though...so i guess i know what you're going through. but when we broke up for those months, i went out with a friend who now likes me again. but..i just don't know what to do about the guy of 2 years. we always talk about marriage and stuff, and we both agreed that its what we want. sorry this turned out as me complaining more so. but i think that you should just go with the boy of 2 years if you love him. you wouldn't want to just go with someone else and leave him and then it turn out to be a huge mistake. :]]
heather.

Answer 4

controlling is NEVER good it leads to more sereious things later on in life. even if you think you love him, if hes controling then chanches are he will not change. go with the new guy. thats what i would do. i had a realatioship like that, it broke my heart in the end. but i find i have less drama and dont fight as much with my new guy.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Why do you want to hold out for a guy who treats you badly? You deserve better and should go for it. Date the new guy and have some fun.

Answer 7

Go for the basketball player.. you will see what a good guy will be like, and have some laughs too... and who knows... ;)

Answer 8

You should go wit the new one get a fresh start

Answer 9

1. confusing baby

Answer 10

a good rule to judge by

take away the sex and ask.."what does he do for me besides....?
add the positive add the negative... aaa, why bother...?
NEXT!
new boy..
go slower and keep your clothes on longer ?...