I am/was seeing a Scorpio and its like everytime he's really inconsiderate and I tell him about it, he just blows me off and acts as if I'm wilding out on him and stops talking to me. He has broken up with me a total of 2 times now...this last time he did it via text and hasn't called me or anything. I really do love him and he had told me he lovd me too but I'm so lost in regards to why he always runs. Does he really not want this? Am I wasting my time? Is this typical Scorpio behaviour not to want to talk about anything? I feel like my heart strings are being pulled...help me please!
2007-03-21 01:16:52 · 3 answers · asked by MockingBird 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Basically he would make plans and cancel them last minute or act as if we never had plans....when I would say something about this he would say he didn't feel like talking about it and he would call me back later but of course the phone call didnt come...I never approached him in a disrespectful manner but at times felt like I couldn't really trust him.
2007-03-21 02:03:07 · update #1
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I don't think it's an astrological sign-type thing. My Moms was a Scorpio that everyone loved.
I think it's more of an issue with him.
The description was a bit vague because there's a reason why he pushes you away when you tell him he's inconsiderate. Most guys thinks that's just random talk to engage in conversation anyway.
Now, if you're antagonizing when you point it out - then, yeah, he'll be turned off by that.
If you love him - accept him for who he is. Eventually, he'll adapt to your perspectives and opinions - association breeds assimilation.
If you're wanting him to change (demanding), then he'll view that as theatrics and move on.
Not the most popular answer, but it's honest and sincere from a man's perspective...
2007-03-21 01:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know both Scorpio girls and guys, they are my friends and one thing I can tell you for sure: at times Scorpios are self-protecting especially when they are cautious if they can really trust. Scorpio male will appreciate if you are really open and honest about your feelings and everything. Just tell him you want to talk to him openly and tell him how you feel about changing his mind at the last moment. Tell him if he keeps saying he doesn't want to talk about whatever tell him you feel like he is afraid to share things with you and that makes you feel hurt because you trust him and you would be glad if he trust you back. Scorpio people are playing fair game so if he told you he loves you it might be true. Tell him directly about everything you feel due to his behavior and ask him to discuss the situation and to come up you two with a decision because tell him if you do not know what is going on you would be afraid all the time if he really cares about you.
Bear in mind Scorpio's mood changes a lot and if he is moody he can bite but he doesn't mean that really he is just self-protective. So catch him at a decent mood and discuss it really because otherwise you are going to doubt as the Scorpio people are really mysterious. So talk to him and wish you luck!
2007-03-22 10:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They tend to puts walls up and not let you in really easy but my Scorpio male is always considerate of my feelings and me and my Scorpio talk about everything, i don't think that it has anything to do with the birth sign but the person and their personality.
2007-03-21 03:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋