ying for the reasons he is doing so ). When I tried to move out yesterday he stopped me saying that he loved me and that he would marry me and everything. I really love him and want him to work but what is going on with his behaviour ? What do I need to do to get him to marry me sooner ?
2007-03-21 01:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And how should I act around his best friend?
2007-03-21 01:38:18 · update #1
1. better u ask him to marry u to prove how much he loves u.
2007-03-21 01:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you really aren't engaged unless you have a wedding date and a ring. By living with him, you are just encouraging things to stay as they are; he probably doesn't want to or need to marry you - no offence, but he is comfy with all you are freely providing him. Move out on your own, and keep dating him if you wish, but there are red flags here...
2007-03-21 01:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if he is trying to impress his friends or himself. If you get married, don't let him start using a camera during sex or you will find yourself being a star for his friends. Your bedroom should be a private place where just the two of you know what goes on. I would reconsider marrying someone who doesn't respect me.
2007-03-21 01:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont even talk to my own brother about anything sexual with my wife as its just not on. I would take a more relaxed route on this as he obviously knows he has you on the back foot. Take control of your relationship if you can, go out without him and come back late once in a while to show him you have options and who knows he may pull his finger out.
2007-03-21 01:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by gingermano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it right there, and leave. If he isnt man enough now to respect your privacy , how do u expect him to be your man and guardian and provider in the future and how do u expect him to be responsible ? U know better.
2007-03-21 01:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋