it wasnt when we were dating, but i didnt know he ever slept with anyone, i haven't and know i found out he just slept with girls for fun... And i feel really upset about this.. I think you should only sleep with people you love and apartenly he doesnt.. And i am not ready to sleep with him, i want to be madlyin love first and stuff, and know i feel like i have to... because he has... get it? what should i do? is this normal, he doesnt get how i feel.....please help me:(
2007-03-21 02:12:39 · 12 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The past is the past. If you can't get past this issue, then you are not going to have a good relationship with him.
On the flip, if he told you he was a virgin and lied, then he sucks.
But in the meantime, just try to not let his past bother you. How would you feel if he was hung up on things you have done before?
Oh and don't give it up until you really feel he is the one :)
2007-03-21 02:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're looking for a guy who feels the same as you about dating then good luck. Guys as well as girls sleep with mates for many other reasons other than love. That's the way life is right now, if you want someone like you define then you should look in the places that generate these people. If you are a bible thumper then it's an easy choice, if not you're in for a rough life. Seems to me you're looking for perfection. If he has everything you want but has been with women in the past when you didn't know him and that gets in the way of your relationship thats ok. But you could be passing up something good.
2007-03-21 02:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't a normall situation.
I think your bf wasn't love you honestly, just leave him....
He just get a love relationship with you JUST FOR FUN, honey...I think he got what you feel but he just doesn't care.
Don't ever sleep with a man him before you married him, okay? Because after he got what he want, he will leave you.
Believe me, that it was fact.
One thing you should do just LEAVE him FOREVER, don't ever TURN YOUR FACE BACK to him.
You're too good to such a jerk guy like him. He said that he love you? It's just a bull ****, babe....
it's just for the good of your ife, whatever you believe it or not.
I'll pray for Jesus Will give you a good man for you, ok?
God Bless you, babe...
One thing you should know that i'm a girl...... :)
2007-03-21 02:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by AB.Christ'91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, don't sleep with him because you feel like you 'have to', you wait until you're damn well good and ready hon.
Secondly, some guys are just like that, they don't always associate sex with love. If he hasn't slept with anyone since you guys have been together, then I wouldn't worry about it too much.
2007-03-21 02:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jenni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you two? and it goes both ways for girls and guys. sometimes a quicky or a one night stand. if you're in High School i'ma tell you now it's going to happen often. now if you two feel the same about eachother let him know you feel uncomfortable with the sitiuation and that it's not something you want him to do while you two are together.
2007-03-21 02:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simone, your boyfriend it seems is a butterfly. Be sure that sooner than later, he'll adopt his sleeping with girls for fun practice. Watch out Simone, you are with the wrong guy!
2007-03-21 02:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf was with many, many many many women, (check out my questions) for fun. He calls it selfishness and immaturity. He could get away with it because he was handsome (very) and a very good actor (what he says ). Only sleep with him if he proposes to you or something like that. And then only about once a month. (Like me.) Good Luck.
2007-03-21 02:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest that most guys at some point in their life felt or acted the same way ----- to us sex is not something mystical its just fun ---- if he is not doing that now nor pressuring you for sex then he has matured enough to respect your wishes and wait for the relationship to reach the stage where you would be comfortable sleeping with him --- and this includes marriage ---- best wishes to you both
2007-03-21 02:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can keep him becos it is a virtue to be forgiving but....you have to dump him if he comes to be forceful becos you have to be responsible to yourself and learn to protect yourself from people who has the root character that might not change in life....sleeping around for fun.
2007-03-21 02:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you prefer to hunch to his point then go out locate some warm $group for the evening and make contact with him or leave a message on his telephone of u 2 getting it on. (i.e.the noises) which will leave a dent in his coronary heart if he truley cares approximately you. otherwise.... unload him, he appears like a jerk you will locate somebody who will manage you extra perfect. sturdy success :)
2016-10-02 12:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋