He's goes on my myspace page all the time & reads all my comments. He hates that I have guys on my top list, though he's indeed in first. I love him so much & he knows that, but he will never understand. He lets his friends get into his mind, makes him think I'm a flirt. I'm so not a flirt!!! I could care less about any of my friends. Sure...Im nice, I'll hang out and chit-chat, but my bfs first, he means alot to me. And lately, his ex-gf is sending him txt or calls to make him jealous about me. I DONT KNOW WHAT SHE SAYS!!! But, dam its got me jealous, he said that she would randomly show up @ his house, but he wont open! Stilllllll...shes making him angry over absolutely NOTHING its so frustrating!!!! Seriously, I'm going to get tired of this!
2007-03-21 02:08:53 · 10 answers · asked by micolperu317 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just remind him how important he is to u. he is probably just a little nervous about it because he knows how pretty and nice u are. he may just be worried that another guy may try to snatch u up. let him meet ur other 'guy friends' and hang out with all of you together. make him feel like hes part of the group and they are no competion to u and him and what yall have. also let him know that its very important 4 him to trust u and for u to be able to trust him. if yall cant trust each other to be faithful then maybe u shouldnt be together. as 4 his ex she just realized wat she lost but if hes not letting her in then he does love u and he wouldnt hurt u hes just nervous. and once his boys start talking u know how guys get. the most important thing is that he knows that hes ur #1 and ur only 1. the jealousy should pass once he is convinced of that.
hope this helps
2007-03-21 02:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~Christina~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to cut your ties with the opposite sex friends! You have a boyfriend, you dont need any other men in your life. He has you, he doesnt need any other women in his life! Get those guys off your myspace, and He needs to get the girls off of his, and all of this will be settled.
2007-03-21 02:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a stinky cologne....You say that your boyfriend is jealous of your myspace page yet he is still talking to his ex??Sound's like you have some real issues..
2007-03-21 02:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well see my bf is in CA right now im in MD (hes in the marines) but we both have our guy/girl friends.. i hate his ex girlfriend too. && i know they still talk, but i mean i do talk to guys so theres really nothing i can do.. so maybe just tell your boyfriend, the guys are nothing more than friends.
2007-03-21 02:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, thats not right at all. I didn't care about people posting(guys) comments on there about my ex, it was cool, i understand she has friends but she was with me every night lol.
2007-03-21 02:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's got major trust issues.
I personally could not date someone who was all up in my business.
Decide whether you want to be with someone who treats you like a cheat and punishes you for it...
2007-03-21 02:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Communicate with him. Tell him there is no one else but him and that it makes you feel like there is nothing you can do to "win his trust".
2007-03-21 02:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are young, and I think you should get out now while the relationship is easy to get out of,, no kids, no marriage , no house,, he will always be jealous,,,
2007-03-21 02:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you really can't. it's a guy thing we're really protective. the phone thing.. tell'em to change numbers. and if u can't trust him leave him.
2007-03-21 02:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch him and his phsyco ex,they sound like they are made for each other. god bless you sweetheart,your in my prayers.
2007-03-21 02:18:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋