we are with each other all the time so I know he isn't getting it somewhere else. I ask him about it and he just says that he does not want me to think thats all he wants. I have never been with a man who was this disinterested in sex and it is driving me crazy what should I do
2007-03-21 02:18:01 · 18 answers · asked by madeline4477 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've got it sis!
First you said it right a MAN
any guy this day and age that
isn't pulling and tugging at your
panties is a pretty good person
to be involed with
My suggestion enjoy it
he might have areligious goal
maybe marriiage before sex?
What a concept!!
maybe he's "A" sexual
and it really doesn't bother him
either or.
And just maybe He really really loves and wants to cherrish YOU
2007-03-21 02:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by manoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a good thing. It seems like he wants a rather long term relationship rather then one just built on sex. It seems like he doesn't want you to think there is a demand or that you're expected to do anything. And it also appears that sex is a big deal to you. You should talk it out with him. He might not be uninterested in sex, but has enough self control to know that that is not where he wants the relationship to go at this point in time. It also depends on how long you've known eachother/been together.
2007-03-21 09:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by Speak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take matters into your own hands. Ravish him, don't give him a choice and if he stops your or gives you an excuse like 'i dont want you to think that's all i want.' tell him you don't care cuz that's what YOU want. If he still says no, there's something wrong. Maybe he's a bible thumper, or maybe premarital sex isn't his thing? Perhaps he has 'problems' down there, like and STD or erectile disfunction and has a hard time telling you. Make him feel comfortable, talk to him about it. It's the only way.
2007-03-21 09:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are more interested in sex than others. Maybe he's a guy that's less interested than normal. If you want sex, you should initiate it. For me, its always a turn-on to have the girl start the party.
2007-03-21 09:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how long have you been together? that is the question. Now if you been together for more than two months. Then he is resepceting you. The relationship is something that you have look at very closely. RELATE he is just trying to find somethings that you are connected as one. So, give him time don't come to hard if he doesn't fulfill your sexual needs.
2007-03-21 09:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by mrintelligent12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should hang on to him. I love sex,but my world doesn't revolve around it.Sometimes a hug,holding hands,making out is just as good.It's important to have someone who cares about you,and isn't in it for only sex.
2007-03-21 10:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Iceman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of factors that could contribute to a low libido other than him not being attracted to you. Evil Genius should know since he's not getting laid. jk... well kind of. anyway, Is he taking any medication?
Is he depressed?
Abusing drugs?
Under a lot of stress?
Or he could just have anxiety about pleasing you or him being able to perform.
2007-03-21 09:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by AK-47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't just about sex...he loves you soo much he respects you to the fullest!!!give him a bit more time..
2007-03-21 09:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by davis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Do you want the sex or do you want him to want the sex? There's a difference.
2007-03-21 09:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him space..it happens to us sometimes and we just need a break from that stuff for a little while... things are goin on in our lives and we just need a break of sex for awhile...he will come around
2007-03-21 09:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋