Just because I enjoy the bartop scene at clubs doesn't mean I am a professional dancer and I certainly am NOT interested in doing any guy favours for cash!
2007-03-21 02:16:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just feel bad taking their money for having nothing but fun dancing.....with my girlfriends, real close.
2007-03-21 02:28:47 · update #1
tell them to back off that you are not a call girl or any sort of person like that! if they dont just take the money and buy you and your mates a round of drinks!! lol
2007-03-21 08:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by fear of the dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're dancing for your own fun and pleasure or with the girls or whatever, and the guys are just offering you cash for the dancing and expecting nothing in return or not really saying anything to you and this appears as just a tip for showing it off, then by all means take the money. It's free money! If they approach you afterwards and say or want something more then say "I'm taken by that girl over there, sorry "!!!! then move fast to the girl over there(be sure she knows you're plan before hand so she can go along with it)
that's the way ya do it! have fun girl...DANCE! you own it so keep it..get it?
Yeah!
2007-03-21 09:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend never be tooooooooo Proud lol
like most compliment's take it as such and keep a lil humor in mind if your in a club Aware & obviously noted that women dance topless atop bars men go wild for the ole stage dancing DD's
If its too flattering or an issue you are taking personally I recommend a bit more modesty in your dance other wise
Cha-ching baby
2007-03-21 09:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by Chi-Girli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything on the bartop my dear, is on display and so, it's for sale. That's why men offer you cash.
2007-03-21 09:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by comradechris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, the men offering you cash feel you look like a pro. Take the money, and tell them to get bent.
2007-03-21 09:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by nikirio 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well,you just have to stop dancing on the bar top...bar top dancing has been and always will be a way of getting money... get a t-shirt saying>>>>>BAR TOP DANCER NOT A MONEY PLEAzzzzeeR.....
2007-03-21 09:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by virgo7134 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already knew the answer and so...why asked?! We are responsible of our behaviour and public image is the way you project. Basically....bar top dance is the job of low class prost and it reflects girls' wildness if they enjoy it and so it is not surprising that you are offered based on the sign and signal you passsed....
2007-03-21 09:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are foolish if you dont grab the money you will not look as good in a few years so use what you have and make a fortune.
2007-03-21 09:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they think you are a dancer and they want to see some action
2007-03-21 09:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by sexsired 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
men seem to think that a female dancing is a open invatation to lower themselves because they don't have the courage to get up an dance themselves ...i'm a man i know
2007-03-21 09:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by bill j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋