Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

until after the divorce.I don't think my ex will give me a divorce if he has to pay child support.

2007-03-20 06:41:46 · 26 answers · asked by hendersonswoman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

However, I am very sad b/c over the past 6 months I have been cheating on him with another man. I Love my boyfriend but am sad to leave the other man in my life. . . . . Should I move to florida with my b/f of 2 years.... or stay with the other man?

2007-03-20 06:41:33 · 23 answers · asked by HelloGoodbye 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy alot and although we've hung out quite a bit, email eachother sometimes and have kissed, he's getting quite distant. I see him about once a week and when he found out that I like him he told me there is 'obviously something between us'. He seems reluctant to show commitment. Should I ask him straight out how he feels, or should I ignore the situation or even forget it and move on?

2007-03-20 06:41:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never been to or had a school or college prom and l would love to be involved in organising one. How should I get started and is it worth it? Just any tips or experiences please.

2007-03-20 06:40:39 · 4 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Singles & Dating

Girls welcome to answer this question. What do you think about that?

2007-03-20 06:40:12 · 33 answers · asked by S c a l p e r 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the best way for a normal-looking girl(not too pretty, not too ugly) to seduce a guy? He isn't really that ugly either =)!

2007-03-20 06:40:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pulled? This sounds strange to me any thoughts? And the dentist was actually a dental surgeon,.

2007-03-20 06:39:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 06:39:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my gf been goin out 6 months Im 16 shes 14 (1 year gap at school) I love her loads nd dont wana lose her nd wana stay wwith her for a very long time... We keep hinting at sex but shes 14 and im not the sorta boy to pressure her cuz thats just not me. I respect her 100% and understand its her discission just wen she talks about it i think is she just saying it or does she love me enough for it to appen. Just ashout out to girls, if it was you how would you be thinking right now?

Thanks Ben

2007-03-20 06:39:39 · 5 answers · asked by Ben 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend with benefits but he is really respectful of me. I don't want him to treat me bad nor would I let him but based on a lot of my friends who have fwb's they are treated like crap. So it's kinda like I would never let it happen but I have reason to expect it. So I just wanted to know is he respectful because of me or is it because of him even though we are only fwb. I think a guy once said not all men are animals or testosterone driven, but I do tend to think that, and try to figure out what makes me not have the experiences my friends have even though I am not complaining.

2007-03-20 06:39:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend with benefits but he is really respectful of me. I don't want him to treat me bad nor would I let him but based on a lot of my friends who have fwb's they are treated like crap. So it's kinda like I would never let it happen but I have reason to expect it. So I just wanted to know is he respectful because of me or is it because of him even though we are only fwb. I think a guy once said not all men are animals or testosterone driven, but I do tend to think that, and try to figure out what makes me not have the experiences my friends have even though I am not complaining.

2007-03-20 06:38:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wanted your opinion on this....

I was on my way to dinner with the guy I'm dating last night. He got a phone call and apparently he needed a co-signer for a motorcycle he was trying to get. He called around to people to ask them if they would co-sign for him. They must have said no because he got all moppy and said he no longer wanted to go out to eat and asked if I would take him home.

Am I wrong to think he overreacted right away? I think he was being a baby....what do you think?

2007-03-20 06:38:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a cop... Think id be good for a laywer?Hummm..... I messed up on my last question i met i liked a guy from California sory... yeah hes a laywer. You think that a lawyer would actually date a cop?

2007-03-20 06:36:55 · 12 answers · asked by Super Trooper 1 in Singles & Dating

I look very young (14-15) and little boys hit on me ... it's really really embarrassing... how can I answer them without being rude?

2007-03-20 06:36:43 · 13 answers · asked by yafit k 4 in Singles & Dating

Friends coming and going, calling as late as 3 am. She has been told not to have her boyfriend sleep over, but defies all house rules. Last weekend she bought so many bottles of booze and got wasted. I heard rumors that she also has been taking acid, estacey, and some cocaine. My question is, to all you parents of teens, would you trust this young girl with your house and all your posessions? Please no smart answers from the teenagers, cause I want parents of teens' opinions. Any suggestions? This is a tough decision, cause we love her, but we are worried about getting ripped off for our possessions.Should we tell her to move out, or take a chance on her. It might be like closing the door after the horse is gone, if we take a chance. She has a job, so its not like she is a dead beat. I just don't no which way to turn. I am just so worried and upset over this. I must leave town for 3 months. Please what would you do if you were me.. Thankyou..

2007-03-20 06:36:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend totally hates my bf but she has a right cuz my bf has been very abusive in the past.He used to get upset & aggressive when I would do anything w/ her & he has even called her up accusin her of weird things so I understand if she doesn't like him. But I did a terrible to my bf & flirted w/ a guy right in front of him (ya I know really stupid of me) & my bf was super mad.I called my friend to get advice & she said "You screwed up, you said sorry so give it some time."She also said things that I didnt really need to hear like how it would be good if he didn't accept my apology cuz it'd be better if I wasnt w/ him anyway & it's he probably wont forgive me cuz he's crazy.I told her today that I didnt appreciate that & I know now I cant talk to her abt anything relating to him or my relationship w/ him.She said she is straight up & says what she feels & I can't expect her to just tell me what I want hear.We ended the talk badly.She is my best friend & I don't what us to be mad.

2007-03-20 06:35:59 · 6 answers · asked by Main 2 in Friends

I just moved in with my fiance and he and I have started to absorb the cost of that and trying to sort it out. We both make descent money, but we both like to spend and we both have considerable credit card debt. He wants to dictate how I deal with my debt and my feeling is that I made it and I will fix it. He has debt and I feel he should deal with it. What's normal in relationships. this is my first time in a situation like this and I think my pride is getting in the way. Help.

2007-03-20 06:35:31 · 12 answers · asked by prettybird 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 06:35:07 · 15 answers · asked by Vexer D 4 in Singles & Dating

I tell him that I love him like 5 times or more per day.I buy him things he wants, like movies,cds, etc.When we go out to eat, I kind of just like to stare at him and if he's starring at the floor or at the wall, I ask him like 3 or 4 times that what is he thinking about.I get sad when its time to go to work because I know I wont see him for another 14 hrs.He says I am trying to hard in the relationship because sometimes I say things without thinking if he'll get mad.Example:After we finished eating in my lunch hr, he said if we can leave already, and I replied if he was in a hurry to leave since he goes in to work at 3 it was barely eleven something.I guess I want for him to be the same way I am, but I know I get to him sometimes.How can I back off without being sad.I think we argue because of my fault.Please help!!!

2007-03-20 06:34:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The guy I like is my friend - we hang around in a group most of the time. He's not particularly tactile so he wouldn't naturally hug or touch someone he liked. He's shy so it would take a lot for him to get the confidence to admit his feelings. What signs should I look out for that he likes me?

2007-03-20 06:34:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there actually any teenage guys that like overweight girls? I am 18, orverweight, and never had a boyfriend because of my weight. Im starting to think I never will because i have never met a guy that likes big girls.

2007-03-20 06:33:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy because he makes me so happy,he lights up my world BUT I think he likes his computer more then he'll ever like me. I just want his attention but i don't want to rush him. I also want to know how to know if he likes me.

2007-03-20 06:33:29 · 16 answers · asked by Cocogirl 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife just up and left out the blue 20 days be fore her birthday 6mons ago and now i want to remerry

2007-03-20 06:33:14 · 11 answers · asked by anita t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 38yo (sexy and young looking) happily (?) married woman.
My husband is the same age, says he loves me, etc. But he emailed and called the "girls", like he said "to get a kick out of it" and did not have any intention to see them. He went on craigslist website.
I believe some would suggest doing some thing in bed..... like Greek, BBJ, etc. We have been together for 12 years and have been doing things that most of my girldfriends would consider.... By going to the website myself I have learnt the words.
It feels weird asking strangers this kind of question. I do not know, but it is even better than talking to relatives or friends.
I would like to know if it is actually common for men doing this things without planning to see the "girls"?

2007-03-20 06:32:49 · 12 answers · asked by heaven girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-20 06:31:36 · 25 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Weddings

pros/cons?

2007-03-20 06:31:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My potention boyfriend is the oldest sibling in his family, i happen to be the youngest in mine, and i was just wondering if that made any difference in a potential relatioship, we get along fine now but will it be a point of tense in the future? PS-i have an older brother he has a younger brother and sister might he look at me like a younger sister instead of a girlfriend?

2007-03-20 06:31:26 · 9 answers · asked by Kati 1 in Singles & Dating

All right, so I've been talking to a guy recently (we've met for lunch twice, we're going to the movies tonight), but I haven't determined how interested I really am. He's pretty cute, a good guy, and talking with him is pretty easy. Not best-friend ease, but not awkward. It's been slow though, because we both work and go to school so we don't have much time to be together. I met him about a month ago.

Then a guy I graduated high school with gives me a call last week. I knew him all through high school, he's a good guy, definitely attractive... We went out a couple times in high school and had a good time, but he was having trouble with an ex and I didn't want in on the drama.

So do I stick with the guy I haven't been dating but have been talking to, out of curtosy/loyalty, and see where that goes? Do I try testing the waters with both? Do I talk to the high school guy (now free from baggage)?

Bleh. Moral quandry. >.<

2007-03-20 06:31:04 · 3 answers · asked by Jes 5 in Singles & Dating

see in details up here ,,,,,this is my drops,,,,I ve lost my best friends- my two black dogs Robic and Rika. Two Rotvelers
so is the Life.What to do/To start from scratch or what/

2007-03-20 06:30:59 · 2 answers · asked by catkiti 1 in Singles & Dating

please help what age is good to date.

2007-03-20 06:30:57 · 8 answers · asked by brebre 1 in Other - Family & Relationships