However, I am very sad b/c over the past 6 months I have been cheating on him with another man. I Love my boyfriend but am sad to leave the other man in my life. . . . . Should I move to florida with my b/f of 2 years.... or stay with the other man?
2007-03-20 06:41:33 · 23 answers · asked by HelloGoodbye 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay out of florida. You are not welcome here.
2007-03-20 06:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would never move to a different state with a man I didn't love. You are not in true love if you are cheating on your boyfriend. I guess I would never cheat on a boyfriend of two years either though. Pick a guy! Or you will be the one ending up sad and alone. If you even cared a little about either guy, you would tell them the truth, or at least pick one. Karma can be a bad thing, so I would be careful of who and what you do.
2007-03-20 06:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by chantel g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all you do not love your boyfriend of two years.
if you did you would not be cheating on him.
Secondly, if you're cheating on him it's most likely because there's something in the relationship that you're not getting from him that this other guy is giving you.
You need to determine what you really want, but i think you owe it to this guy to tell him what you've been doing. IF he's going to trust you enough to live with you in Florida you're going to have to be honest with him. If he can forgive you for doing this & move forward with you that's his decision. If you move there after having this affair with the other man you may start regretting the move after some time & start cheating on him again with someone in Florida.
If you are in this relationship just to cheat on the guy you should just tell him the truth & split up. If you have any respect or any decency you'll let him go be happy with someone who will treat him right as opposed to being with a deceitful woman who cheats on him behind his back.
Edit: Being a florida resident myself i agree with the fellow floridian's comment below.
2007-03-20 06:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all you shouldn't have cheated. Second I know that you care about both of there feelings. How long have you been seeing this other man? if its like 3 months or something then drop him. But if its been a long time then you have to stop and ask your heart who you love more. Then drop the other one very carefully. Don't be harsh about it. Good Luck.
2007-03-20 06:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have been In a courting for 2 years,and now he's shifting all a technique to the different element of the rustic,and could no longer assist you pass there additionally? He needs to commence over while he strikes,and he would not prefer you to be a factor of that new commence. If It became extremely exceptionally lots his mothers ailment,do no longer you think of he might only pass temporarily,and not make It an eternal pass?and notwithstanding if he desperate he needed to stay there to be close to his mom,him no longer letting you progression with him is a demonstration he's using this as an risk to end the courting.He already instructed you himself that that is over.Him saying he can no longer make any judgements related to you "until eventually he's familiar with whats happening" sounds like he's only attempting to come again up with a marvelous excuse to break up or he needs to get there and stay a single existence,detect his concepts for awhile earlier he makes a decision If he needs to stay with you.genuine,there could be no longer something incorrect with the courting different than that he only would not prefer to be in one anymore.the reason he's spending time with you presently's because of the fact he needs to proceed getting interest and booty from you until eventually he strikes.
2016-10-01 05:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! You need to slow down first and ask yourself why did you feel you had to cheat in the first place. If you move there, wld u just pick up where u left off w/ someone new? I think u shld search yur heart first and see if you love him enuff to be faithful or love him enough to leave him and let him keep his good memories of you.
2007-03-20 06:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are unsure then then DO NOT MOVE. take some time (several weeks at least) by yourself and see who you miss the most and dont see either one of them anymore until you know for sure who you want to be with and no more cheating.
2007-03-20 06:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by jon jon's girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way should you relocate with your boyfriend. Think about how unfair you are being. Also, consider his reaction when he finds out what you've done!! He will certainly feel used and no doubt be hurt and angry. You appear to be young and your behavior demonstrates that you need to stay put and figure out what you want out of life.
2007-03-20 06:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by I_hope_I_know 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only you can decide what to do, but you're hurting everyone by cheating. get your head straight before you decide to move. don't move if you're not sure you want to stay with your b/f. it's easier to stay than go and have to come back. I was cheated on and you don't ever get over it completely.
2007-03-20 06:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should fess up to your b/f of 2 years and see if he still wants you. That should help make up your mind. Does the other man know he's sharing you? There are words for what you're doing.
2007-03-20 06:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely not move with your boyfriend if you like someone else. You shouldn't cheat either. Pick one and stay with your decision, or dump them both and start over.
2007-03-20 06:44:54 · answer #11 · answered by Audrey C 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋