I look very young (14-15) and little boys hit on me ... it's really really embarrassing... how can I answer them without being rude?
2007-03-20 06:36:43 · 13 answers · asked by yafit k 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's cute! Besides, they have really got to have confidence. Just let them know how old you really are. You are the older one here, hun. You handle it with the dignity you've got, and before too long, it will just be cute and flattering, not embarrassing.
2007-03-20 06:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once when I was 32, I was "hit on" by a 17 year old....so I can relate! Flattering, yes....awkward....definitely! Just be honest with him without laughing at him or making a big deal out of it all. The guy has more reason to feel embarrassed than you do (since you're turning him down), so go easy on him, and consider his attention a compliment.
Or, you could just tell him your a lesbian.......LOL!
2007-03-20 06:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not embarrassing at all. I looked 14 when I was 20. If he was 18, I'd say go for it. Younger me rock!
2007-03-20 06:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm 31 and I have 16 year olds asking me the same thing. Just take it as a compliment and let it go.
2007-03-20 06:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Diamond Diva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be flattered. Just tell them that you are divorced with 3 kids. That's send them running.
2007-03-20 06:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Celia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you are flattered but are a little to old for them.
2007-03-20 06:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by kMaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them you are 20.
2007-03-20 06:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are you hanging out to have boys 16 ask u out
hummmmmmmmmmmm?
2007-03-20 06:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be flattered and I would tell him that.
Just say, "I am flattered,but not looking to be in a relationship at this exact moment."
2007-03-20 06:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by Bones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go look at some girly books he is still a boy!
2007-03-20 06:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋