Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

She hasn't had much of a libido since our child was born a year and a half ago. So I try and add more foreplay and stuff to help her get in the mood, but when I start to go down, she stops me. She'll give me an excuse like; (I only like that right after a shower, or I don't feel like it, or just say I don't know)

Ladies, what changed, she liked it before?

2007-03-20 07:09:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Had a brief relationship with this guy, he's lovely and going through a tough time so we broke up. I have sent him a couple of emails but have heard nothing back and figure he doesn't want to hear from me so I don't want to write again. I've got the message ;-)

BUT we were working on a mutual project that I am nearly finished with but need to ask him some info. Should I send him the mail with the questions or should I just 'make up' his answers?

I do find his ignoring my emails a bit hurtful too so am reluctant for that reason as well but his help on the questions would be brilliant. Help.

2007-03-20 07:08:59 · 37 answers · asked by Fletch2066 2 in Singles & Dating

Creative ideas, please! I want to do something nice for my husband for his birthday in May that he'll really like. I'm looking for a hint type thing that leads up to the day of. . . with clues or a game or something. Not sure what, but I want to do something that takes thinking, time, and planning on my part rather than a lot of money.

Details: We have an infant and a preschooler so we can't get away for more than a couple of hours. He works 12 hour shifts and a lot of overtime. We don't have any extra money, but I could probably come up with 30 bucks by then. I do have his parents available to watch the kids for a few hours if necessary. We could travel anywhere between Ft. Myers and Tampa. Orlando is a bit far, but may be in that area one day around that time.

2007-03-20 07:08:35 · 6 answers · asked by CandyLandCondoResident 3 in Marriage & Divorce

instead of putting her in nursing home, she has alzheimers, we r engaged living in nearby states, this is ruining our chances of being together, i dont want her living with us, he has even stopped his job to take care of her, so i feel he is choosing her over our futures, she is 85, she has already had a full life, please give me some advice

2007-03-20 07:08:18 · 14 answers · asked by Chris B 1 in Family

to impress you or show they care?

women what would you prefer?
a man who spends his money on you or one that shows he cares?

me--id prefer to be with a simple man who genuinely cares, i dont care about how much money hes making

2007-03-20 07:07:38 · 11 answers · asked by amazing 2 in Singles & Dating

Broke up with my boyfriend last monday, so it's been a week. After he hinted at getting back together, I e-mailed him and told him that I didn't want to. He e-mailed me back and said he loved me? What the heck...after being a dick all this time, he suddenly wants another chance? By the way that would be the fourth time around for us.

2007-03-20 07:06:31 · 2 answers · asked by Lucky Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-20 07:06:07 · 4 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Weddings

my best friends think im really wierd because I love dogs and I am shy with people but i am really good with animals and when strangers come up to pet my dog when we are on walks i can talk to that person for ever and at school all i talk about is dogs because I dont know most of my friends friends because im shy I dont know if this makes sence but should i just ignore her? And i have another friend who is homeschooled and she says that she doesnt care what i talk about but i barely see her so what should i do?

2007-03-20 07:05:56 · 25 answers · asked by LabbieLover 3 in Friends

My wife is going to have her first swing fling next week. After 4 years of dealing with her depression she is starting to return to living life. The guy is a semi friend and we know that he is clean. This is a fling just for sex, we are secure in our love. What should I look out for?

2007-03-20 07:05:04 · 7 answers · asked by uniroyalfan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Cos I find it easier to approach n flirt with girls with a meat on em - dont get me wrong there is a cut off point to how fat a girl can be, but i mean beggars cant be choosers right?

2007-03-20 07:05:03 · 4 answers · asked by Amachronic 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok im going to my partners brothers wedding in september over in Ireland, i havn't a clue what to wear not only do i wanna look good for myself, i want to look gorgeous for my fella, any ideas.Talk about planning ahead lol...

2007-03-20 07:05:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

and still not be able to LIVE with them? My husband and I are separated right now and we spend most of our time crying on the phone to each other about how tragic this whole thing is, because honestly...as much as we love each other, we simply cannot live in the same house together. This is the third time we've separated and we're finally going ahead with the divorce. We've promised each other we're still going to be there for each other always...just not as huband and wife. Is that possible? Or will it eventually just dwindle to nothing if one of us finds someone else? If that's the case, then I'd rather just "cut it" completely....but I can't imagine my life without him in it....I'm driving myself nuts with this...please help!!

Please, only thoughtful, knowledgable responses...I'm really at the edge right now...seriously. Don't spare me the bitter truth either...I need to know what to do.

2007-03-20 07:04:09 · 18 answers · asked by LolaCorolla 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I met her in a big restaurant by chance.

I often go there.

she is a part time waitress.

she cant be regarded as a beauty, but she has cute and innocent smile.

two weeks ago I gave her tip, exchanging stupid joke and reply.

since then we briefly used to have casual talk whenever I eat there.

and I began to have crush on her.

today I was in restaurant with my friend.

my friend knows I have a crush on her.

he intenionally talked to her "you look pretty , may I see you in a different place?"

she replyed surprisingly enough " I am gonna marry your friend "

we laughed ,so far I v never asked her out.

I am a little bit shy, not sure she will be with me if I ask her out.

do you think she like me

will I succeed if I ask her out?

my friend say she is not pretty enough, but to me she is so sexy

2007-03-20 07:04:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 07:04:01 · 9 answers · asked by *{Sexy Flaca}* 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am talking about 22 years age difference. will it work out. can a woman really fall in love with a man of that age difference. I am worried if my dad's new wife is using him for his money, although she seems to be a good girl.

2007-03-20 07:03:41 · 4 answers · asked by fredy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 07:03:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-20 07:03:26 · 8 answers · asked by esmrlda 1 in Friends

2007-03-20 07:03:26 · 11 answers · asked by Audge_100 1 in Family

Why is it that when you ask a question everyone automatically believes they have to judge you. I know I am guilty of it my self. But I dont do it not knowing the situation.
I had asked another question today about why my husband wouldent have sex with me. My answers I recieved were well you just had a baby you must be over weight! Then I got told I was selfish for want to have sex with him. But all I wanted to know was what I could do to help him and his stress so maybe bedroom things could be better. I dont know what to say to answers like this! What do you think?

2007-03-20 07:03:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think modern woman asks too much from poor, average guys like us?

Get me a house, care, diamond ring, etc etc.

Not just any house, car or ring, put it on credit if you have to, it shows you love her?

Are you afraid to date modern women because of so many wants they have?

2007-03-20 07:02:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sister lives in another state when mom dies she wants to sell the home ,and split profits, but i want to stay and live there, would squatters rights work in this situation?

2007-03-20 07:02:15 · 13 answers · asked by cyndi p 1 in Family

my ex had custody in another state and then gave them back on his own free will, no other custody arrangments were made and now he moved back here and wants to take over...they have been with me for over 5 years....who has rights? and does the custody carry over from other states? i am scared to fight with him cause i dont know what he will do....he took them from me before but we were still married and I could not do anything about it...any advise?

2007-03-20 07:02:08 · 6 answers · asked by jaylee0523 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently my girlfriend of 2 years split up with me.She said that she dont feel the same way as she did before (i.e love) She sent a letter to me with all her thoughts and feelings but in it nothing seems to be serious enough to split up over.She even goes on to say how wonderful a boyfriend i am and that i have all the qualities she wants in a boyfriend.We had a bit of a break 8 months into the relationship because she told me she loved me but i couldn't tell her due to being heartbroken before.We sorted that out and got back stronger than before.The main thing she keeps saying to me now is that she feels that she doesn't have the energy to try.The silly thing is,is that this has came out of nowhere and that she has been bottling this up for a couple of months now.I feel devastated and would do absolutely anything to get her back.I am totally going out of my mind because i really feel she is the one for me.She's my angel.Can anybody help me....please??

2007-03-20 07:01:55 · 15 answers · asked by Wayne R 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby is a swingers. We've been married for 3 yrs. I really want to quit follwing him to be a swingers, but he's gonna mad at me. He keep saying that this is just for fun. I really didnt find any 'fun' as swingers, but only make him happy.I did many things for him to stop, conversation etc. But cant help and make him more angry. What i should do without divorce him?

2007-03-20 07:01:25 · 10 answers · asked by ali n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My b/f an I have been togeather for 4 months. about 3 weeks back he was talking Alot to this other girl an i hurd them talking one day an said somthing to the both of them.he got mad when i asked him not to talk to her. an she agreed not to talk to him but i think she still does. an he tells me he dont anymore. but i think he might be lieing an now things are kinda weird i feel like i cant trust him... but i cant tell him i dont trust him I Love him an he told me he Loves me too. What do I do. i love him but i kinda want to brake up. but i kinda dont.. S/O i want to be able to trust him n everything but every time i go to talk to him about it he Gets Mad! I m not sure what to say. do i even have a reason to be upset about this? Please help me!!!!

2007-03-20 07:01:22 · 7 answers · asked by rebel girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 07:00:38 · 17 answers · asked by luis y caro l 1 in Family

I have looked online at some places to buy inexpensive dresses.. I am just curious if anybody has ever bought a wedding dress off the internet and how did it turn out. They look real good on the computer but I am scared to go that route. If anybody has ever bought a dress online please tell me your experience with that.

2007-03-20 07:00:38 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. For the past 2 years I have had problems with him viewing things on the internet that I have asked him not to. I have asked him not to do it at least 10 times before and he always says he won't. I just found out that he has been doing it for the past 6 months. When I asked him about it he swore on our unborn child's life that he wasn't doing it. I don't feel like I can trust him and he doesn't seem to care if he hurts me or not. He isn't a bad boyfriend in any other way but this really hurts me and he knows it. I have told him that I don't want to be with him anymore. Do you think that is the right decision? Do you think he will ever stop if I stay with him? What should I do?

2007-03-20 06:59:45 · 11 answers · asked by Maid of Constant Sorrow 4 in Singles & Dating

ok i st up this date for this girl in school but i keep seeing her alot in school before the date i dont go up to often to talk we both need our space what do i do to give her alot of space or is the space ok

2007-03-20 06:59:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex husbands girlfriend is a handful to put it nicely. They've been living together for about 9 months and she's 4 months pregnant. Here's the situation. I have 2 children (13 & 9). She has 2 children of her own (of which she doesn't have custody), but they're visitation is same as my children's. The girlfriend is so childish it's pathatic. Ex: My family recently went out to eat at a local restaraunt where we ran in to the ex and his girlfriend. My father spoke to my ex to be social and the ex returned a polite reply and we all went on our way. The next weekend the kids were scheduled to be with their dad they were punished by her by not getting to go bowling because they didn't give her a hug when they saw her and their dad called my father papa. Incidents like this happen all the time. She's making my kids miserable and pushing them away from their dad, but apparently he can't see it. He's always been a good dad and I want him to spend time with his kids. What do I do?

2007-03-20 06:58:45 · 15 answers · asked by Lovin'life 1 in Marriage & Divorce