Recently my girlfriend of 2 years split up with me.She said that she dont feel the same way as she did before (i.e love) She sent a letter to me with all her thoughts and feelings but in it nothing seems to be serious enough to split up over.She even goes on to say how wonderful a boyfriend i am and that i have all the qualities she wants in a boyfriend.We had a bit of a break 8 months into the relationship because she told me she loved me but i couldn't tell her due to being heartbroken before.We sorted that out and got back stronger than before.The main thing she keeps saying to me now is that she feels that she doesn't have the energy to try.The silly thing is,is that this has came out of nowhere and that she has been bottling this up for a couple of months now.I feel devastated and would do absolutely anything to get her back.I am totally going out of my mind because i really feel she is the one for me.She's my angel.Can anybody help me....please??
2007-03-20 07:01:55 · 15 answers · asked by Wayne R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...I always say that absence makes the heart grow founder...but this ain't always the case or the truth dude. Talk is talk...and actions speak louder then words in my world anyways. Liars and cheats can't be trusted. I'd say a deep face to face with each other might help in getting to the bottom of your query...but don't count on it to be too forthcoming in it's nature either. Give her some time and space to miss ya...and if she doesn't?...well in that you'll have your answer my friend. Women like being with the ones they truly love...not the ones they don't. Have a concrete conversation with her partner...otherwise it might be time to unload your unheralded love in the dumpster dude. Sorry this is happening to you unfortunately. It is a part of life sometimes in the course of relationships. Nothing is perfect in anything my friend...not even her. Get busy...and get better! Plenty of women wanna touch your heart dude...if only you'll let them.
2007-03-20 07:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to give her space to come to her own decision on this and perhaps date around some so she knows you're not just hanging on a string for her to use like some sort of puppet. Nothing gives an ex a kick in the pants (motivation) like seeing that the person they were with can get along just fine (maybe even better by all appearances?) without them.
2007-03-20 07:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to realize for herself that she wants you back. If you are able to talk her into coming back but she doesn't have her heart in the relationship then it will only be a matter of time before she does this again. I know this sounds cheesy but leave her be for awhile and if she really does love you and want to be with you then she will come back on her own and the relationship will be all the more strong!
2007-03-20 07:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is tiered give her some free time then try to win her love back like sending flowers gifts chocolate musician any thing to let her know that you still love her and want her back but if she still refuses to try you must go on the point is not to stay still go on search for another am sure out there their is a huge numbers of girls that you are capable to love and be loved by them too breaking up is not the end of the world
2007-03-20 07:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about give her some time to sort things out? she looks very confused 2 me..and while she feels this way i don t think u can try to get her back.because it would be useless..talk to her , give her time to think everything over again. and she must know that she might lose u..I also don t think that this came out of nowhere...try find out where this came from and come back with some details.
2007-03-20 07:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rebel EXtravaganza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please dont have the energy to try. Loving someone is going the extra mile and not giving up. Maybe she is afraid you will break her heart or she has someone else in her life and is letting you down easy. Watch her movements you will get the answer.
2007-03-20 07:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to be with you, then she's not a good match for you. Let her make her own choice. Just because you think she's awesome, doesn't mean she feels the same way.
Move on...you'll meet someone down the road with whom there is mutual spark...good luck!
2007-03-20 07:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got the same thing a couple of days ago and ive been with her for 4yrs, i can tell you if her hearts not init then your wasting your time, take the time you need to recover then hopefully one day yous can atleast be friends.
2007-03-20 07:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by MetaFace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are u doing wasting ur time on here telling us all about it. GO get her back!!!!! Maybe she just needed a little time to herself.. She loves u and u know that she does.....
good luck to u
2007-03-20 07:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know watch some cheesy love movies to find something
2007-03-20 07:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by toothymarine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋