My b/f an I have been togeather for 4 months. about 3 weeks back he was talking Alot to this other girl an i hurd them talking one day an said somthing to the both of them.he got mad when i asked him not to talk to her. an she agreed not to talk to him but i think she still does. an he tells me he dont anymore. but i think he might be lieing an now things are kinda weird i feel like i cant trust him... but i cant tell him i dont trust him I Love him an he told me he Loves me too. What do I do. i love him but i kinda want to brake up. but i kinda dont.. S/O i want to be able to trust him n everything but every time i go to talk to him about it he Gets Mad! I m not sure what to say. do i even have a reason to be upset about this? Please help me!!!!
2007-03-20 07:01:22 · 7 answers · asked by rebel girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it sounds like he is being an immature jerk! if u cant trust him then the relationship with him is nothing!! a relationship has to be built on trust and if u dont have that then there is nothing there to be holding on to. just trust ur heart and ur feelings and do wat is best for u cuz there are plenty of other good guys in this world!! hope this helps! good luck!
2007-03-20 07:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, if in your gut you have a bad feeling about them talking, then you have a reason to be upset. if every time you talk to him about it he gets immediately mad and he's not understanding, then he's prolly guilty of something. i would suggest taking a break from him and finding a guy you can 100% trust, because trust is the foundation to any relationship
2007-03-20 07:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Carly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think u should be upset about this. its ok and all that he talks to like another gurl. if shes a really close friend than thats okay. i guess...but i seriously would just try to talk to him about it. even if he DOES get mad. cuz obviously u dont wanna be cheated on. just let him get mad even if u get into an arguement. sometimes fights in a relationship make it stronger.
2007-03-20 07:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know something, once you are not comfortable in a relationship is not worth the pain going thru, i now when you love somebody is hard to let go but eventually you do, is better you find out what you really feel for him, if you do not see yourself spending the rest of you life with this person is better you let it go
2007-03-20 07:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like there is nothing going on between your boyfriend and that girl. Almost every couple goes through a phase like this. (I know from experience!) To me, it sounds like they are just friends, and you need to let this happen. If you don't allow him to branch out and be friends with other girls, he might end up breaking up with you! Just let nature take it's course, and talk it out with him. If all ese fails, break up with him and move on!!
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2007-03-20 07:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by AB &♥; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him. there is no chance of a good relationship without trust. saying i love you means nothing. he has to show it... and the fact that he won't stop talking to this other girl when he knows it bother you does not show it.
find a guy that appreciates you and your wishes.
2007-03-20 07:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the bastard theres plenty more fish in the sea show him whos boss!
2007-03-20 07:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋