My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. For the past 2 years I have had problems with him viewing things on the internet that I have asked him not to. I have asked him not to do it at least 10 times before and he always says he won't. I just found out that he has been doing it for the past 6 months. When I asked him about it he swore on our unborn child's life that he wasn't doing it. I don't feel like I can trust him and he doesn't seem to care if he hurts me or not. He isn't a bad boyfriend in any other way but this really hurts me and he knows it. I have told him that I don't want to be with him anymore. Do you think that is the right decision? Do you think he will ever stop if I stay with him? What should I do?
2007-03-20 06:59:45 · 11 answers · asked by Maid of Constant Sorrow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's put it this way- I deleted over 12,000 pics and files from porn sites from my hard drive this morning.
2007-03-20 07:34:41 · update #1
And its not like we never have sex- we do all the time.
2007-03-20 07:37:38 · update #2
i think you made a good decision. tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore and that if he stops, then you'll reconsider starting over. but you also need to consider your unborn child, and think if this is the person you want raising that child. i hope everything works out for you guys and best of luck with motherhood!
2007-03-20 07:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Carly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs psychiatric help, because it seems like he might have an addiction. Staying with him is totally up to you, because I can see there is a lot of pain here. What I do not like about this situation is the fact that he's lying about doing this. How do you not know that he lies about other stuff too? If you do not have trust in him, then this relationship will not work out.
2007-03-20 07:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by love 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely, perhaps in case you have asked him and he won't answer, perhaps for the reason that's some thing he's managing on my own do you realize of a private disaster he could be having? (domicile, artwork, friends)?? i would not push, basically enable that's. adult men do no longer consistently demonstrate thoughts and thoughts like us. whether you have been extremely close, he might basically be having a tricky time on the different hand, perhaps he's combating desirous to be out of a realtionship - in all probability no longer you - yet him and his subjects being apprehensive is organic; shop chatting with friends and get help from others. do no longer push him too difficult, yet help him, whether the top consequence isn't a relationship yet a friendship sturdy success!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2016-10-02 11:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he has an addiction to internet porn. If he doesn't seem to care that he hurts you then I think that is being a bad boyfriend. You don't want your child to grow up seeing daddy looking at naked people do you? Think of yourself and your child. What do you want for you?
2007-03-20 07:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really cared about you he would of stoped long ago. So you ask yourself that question, do you want to put up with this for the rest of you life??
Is your happines not his.We are not animals to be told many times what to do. If he can not understand for 3 years then you know what to do.
Good luck
2007-03-20 07:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by only me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you ask him of something you dont like him looking up, and he said he wont , and he did, tell you the truth, I think you should do the right thing for yourself, and dump him, If he really loved you that he would stop the first time
2007-03-20 07:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look with him.
It will turn him on so much that he will never let you go and believe me he will stop looking in time because you will be far more appeling.
He just needs to realise that you turn him on a hell of a lot more than anything he could look at on the internet!!!
Good luck love and happy watching
2007-03-20 07:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by laurie d 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If I was you I would put on one of those parental control things and dont tell him the password and dont let him no it was you, but on the other hand he is a guy and guys do have needs.
2007-03-20 07:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he could be doing worse things. guys dont listen if they like doing somthing they are going to do it. if you say no it makes them want to do it more. it's just the internet he is a guy. once you act like you dont care he will gradually stop. just show him your better then somthing on a computer. you have nothing to worry about
2007-03-20 07:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Lovley 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What exactly is he viewing need more info
2007-03-20 07:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ans 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋