Why is it that when you ask a question everyone automatically believes they have to judge you. I know I am guilty of it my self. But I dont do it not knowing the situation.
I had asked another question today about why my husband wouldent have sex with me. My answers I recieved were well you just had a baby you must be over weight! Then I got told I was selfish for want to have sex with him. But all I wanted to know was what I could do to help him and his stress so maybe bedroom things could be better. I dont know what to say to answers like this! What do you think?
2007-03-20 07:03:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think there are all kinds of people out there, & they are giving you their opinions...
I can relate...we ask a question asking something, & get some crude comments...
But, like you said, we've been guilty of judging others ourselves...
Don't take it personal...
2007-03-20 07:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you ask a bunch of strangers, many of whom are kids or people slacking off at work (guilty) that you're going to get a variety of answers...if you want a professional opinion, ask a professional.
Thin skinned people don't last long online because the unkewl people will run 'em off in a heartbeat. Consider the source of the 'bad' answers and feel sorry for those people for having small minds, pent up anger, and bad karma.
Focus on the replies that you find helpful or appear sincere. We all judge, it's natural...and a lot of times people make judgements that may seem harsh or misguided but you also have to remember we only know what the question askers here post...we often have to base our replies on very little information.
2007-03-20 14:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that yahoo answers is a QUICK way to make WRONG judgements about people we DONT know. Its an answer/question site where you dont have to know anything about this person, and can judge them based on the paragraph of info they post. Its not a good thing, its just how it is. Dont let the stupid answers get you down, surely there had to be some good ones too. Good luck
2007-03-20 17:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately if you ask a question on here you have to prepare yourself for the morons out there to answer you rudely and without cause. As for your other question, one way to help hubby out with some love making is to find out why he is so stressed, give him some added attention, get a babysitter (if an option that is) and shower him with some adoration. Babies are stressful all in themselves and both moms and dads need time away from children and be "adults". I know it sounds horrid to say that you should give him one night that he can call "his", but trust me, he'll love you for it and you'll get what you are after.............sex and intimacy.
2007-03-20 14:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋