Just wanted your opinion on this....
I was on my way to dinner with the guy I'm dating last night. He got a phone call and apparently he needed a co-signer for a motorcycle he was trying to get. He called around to people to ask them if they would co-sign for him. They must have said no because he got all moppy and said he no longer wanted to go out to eat and asked if I would take him home.
Am I wrong to think he overreacted right away? I think he was being a baby....what do you think?
2007-03-20 06:38:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're all right, he's a loser not worth dating....where are the good men?!
2007-03-20 07:02:17 · update #1
First, he's asking for a co-signer, which means he doesn't have very good credit or none at all-not a good sign. Second, when he doesn't get his way, he pouts and asks to be taken home, and third-you have to take him home-doesn't he have a car? He sounds like a loser-dump him before he tries to get you to finance his nonsense.
2007-03-20 06:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't comprehend in the event that they're cry-toddlers or no longer hassle-free men yet they beneficial do overreact to exceptionally much each mundane, concern-loose play. Take working example a rebound. Glen Davis gets a rebound and places it back for 2 factors and the guy celebrates like he made the final play in NBA history. entire overreaction to a thoroughly concern-loose play just to get some interest from the cameras. only make the shot, run down the floor and play. Being 6'9" and getting a rebound, putting it back for 2 factors would not deserve fist pumps, screams and jersey tugging.
2016-10-01 05:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sounds like he's being a baby to me! But what's new? Guys are just like big kids, they love toys, food, and girls. I have dated a few guys like this, and it never really works out. I cannot take a man seriously if he cries all the time. If this was the first crying incident, maybe give him another chance...it could have just been a really bad day, but if he is crying all the time over stupid little things, then I would say adios!
2007-03-20 06:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by chantel g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he was acting like a loser and a baby. Why is he talking that kind of business on a date anyways? There is a time and a place for that. I thought that was rude of him. I would have asked him to take me home after his conversation.
2007-03-20 06:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by gurllucky7 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm wondering what you were doing going out to pay to eat at a restaurant with a guy who needs to have a co-signer on his loan AND cries when he can't get it - run fast my friend.
2007-03-20 06:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, he sounds like a complete puss. Not to mention what kind of "man" needs someone to co-sign for something?
You need to cut that zero and find a real man who can afford to buy his own things and won't whine like a punk over every little thing!
2007-03-20 06:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
oh girl i am right with you he acted like a pouty little drama queen lol that would freak me out
if he cant handle a little rejection then he needs to go hang out with real men alittle more and stop acting so childish lol
you are so right he is WAY over reacting on this one
and its kinds creepy now that i think of it so good luck Hun she is a weirdy
2007-03-20 06:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
motorcycles are dangerous. if the people he knew refused to cosign for im then that says alot. he does not need a motorcycle. i am sure he was just disappointed. men and boys act like babys when it comes to their toys. let him just get over it and do not offer to cosign for him.
2007-03-20 06:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by misse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His feelings were genuine, whether or not you think they were appropriate. You need to decide whether they are a deal-breaker and, if they are, find someone else to date. Clearly you are looking for a cross between a cowboy and a marine. Good hunting.
2007-03-20 06:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the motorcycle means more to him than you. Keep paying attention to those red flags like you are doing....
2007-03-20 06:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋