All right, so I've been talking to a guy recently (we've met for lunch twice, we're going to the movies tonight), but I haven't determined how interested I really am. He's pretty cute, a good guy, and talking with him is pretty easy. Not best-friend ease, but not awkward. It's been slow though, because we both work and go to school so we don't have much time to be together. I met him about a month ago.
Then a guy I graduated high school with gives me a call last week. I knew him all through high school, he's a good guy, definitely attractive... We went out a couple times in high school and had a good time, but he was having trouble with an ex and I didn't want in on the drama.
So do I stick with the guy I haven't been dating but have been talking to, out of curtosy/loyalty, and see where that goes? Do I try testing the waters with both? Do I talk to the high school guy (now free from baggage)?
Bleh. Moral quandry. >.<
2007-03-20 06:31:04 · 3 answers · asked by Jes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you have not agreed to be exclusive with anyone then there is no problem with you spending time with both of them. You may find that you are no longer as interested in the guy who used to have baggage as you once were or that you are more interested in the new guy anyway.
Just be honest with both of them and don't hide the fact that you are going out with both of them and there shouldn't be a problem.
2007-03-20 09:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do both. You've only date the guy twice, so you're not obligated to be exclusive. Date the high school guy and see if he's grown up at all. Date the other guy and see if you like him as you get to know him better. A couple of dates doesn't bond you to pursue a relationship. Both of these guys are probably dating other girls, too.
2007-03-20 13:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try both of them. You don't really know the guy you just met (I assume), so go out with him to the movies and get to know him a little more, and also go out with the guy from highschool to catch up with him. Then you can know which one you like better.
Sincerely,
Jessica Kelly
CEO, http://www.easymatch.info
2007-03-20 13:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋