I am a 38yo (sexy and young looking) happily (?) married woman.
My husband is the same age, says he loves me, etc. But he emailed and called the "girls", like he said "to get a kick out of it" and did not have any intention to see them. He went on craigslist website.
I believe some would suggest doing some thing in bed..... like Greek, BBJ, etc. We have been together for 12 years and have been doing things that most of my girldfriends would consider.... By going to the website myself I have learnt the words.
It feels weird asking strangers this kind of question. I do not know, but it is even better than talking to relatives or friends.
I would like to know if it is actually common for men doing this things without planning to see the "girls"?
2007-03-20 06:32:49 · 12 answers · asked by heaven girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NOPE! I have no time, or anything else, for prostitutes, and neither does any self-respecting husband. If your husband is doing this, you need to divorce him!
2007-03-20 07:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has a problem, with reality. perhaps he feels empowered, to manipulate someone, that he considers a "pro" I have a new girlfriend, that is afraid I might really go to a prostitute. i would rather beat off, in church, than to risk anything that nasty, with the risk of a ton of deseases, to get, and to bring home to you. Perhaps he wants to get excited about the IDEA of having a prostitute. MAYBE,,just maybe,,help the fantasy, by surprizing him, by being dressed as a prostitute, with a phone, and a keyboard, and an evening to yourselves! It might be red hot!
2007-03-26 16:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Steve C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's definitely a slippery slope. Calling for fun?? Well, you must trust your husband cause all men are just a little bit curious about hookers.
Just don't push it, and move on to some other type of 'fun'.
2007-03-20 23:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like your man would like to do it with the prostitutes but lacks the guts. As long as you don't mind, it is better than he actually doing it with them. You might want to watch your phone bill. Hope he is not calling the 1.900 number.
2007-03-20 18:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have done it, and i have never cheated on my wife. i normally won't email or call, but i have called. usually i just window shop.
your husband could have sexual addiction issues. where the thrill of doing stuff like that is a big turn on. i would not freak out, but just be honest, and encourage him to be honest as well. it's hard to talk about what gets you off, but it's often liberating for your partner to know about it.
sexual addiction an addiction like drugs/booze. as a result people turn to sexual content and outlets sometimes as a way of fulfilling other needs and wants. i'm no expert, but i've dealt with these issues myself. being open and honest with my wife has helped me deal with it.
as for advice, i dunno, try to get him to verbalize his fantasies, and play along. a lot of the perv things i fantasize about my wife doesn't have to do, but she'll talk dirty like she would, or would want to, and that alone is a big turn on.
2007-03-20 20:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about what he can't have...and yet he enjoys being raunchy with the phone sex...I mean fun girls. He just has a perv side to him and its a way for him to get his kicks. yeah he'll still screw you till the end of time....but you cant do for him what he can do with his mind....remember...men are visual....creatures...while females are mental....we can think it can ***...they have to see it....
2007-03-27 15:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i have not, it is a waste of time, If i can not have the real Thing... Like a girlfriend/wife
2007-03-27 09:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just off the top of my head, I'd say he needs to quit and appreciate what he has.
2007-03-24 13:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by John M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest...i have email in a formal way not of those drifting n cleaning,,,,,,,but its good to share our view to them.....not to go deep inside the ocean
2007-03-28 06:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got the wrong husband.
2007-03-26 09:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋