Me and my gf been goin out 6 months Im 16 shes 14 (1 year gap at school) I love her loads nd dont wana lose her nd wana stay wwith her for a very long time... We keep hinting at sex but shes 14 and im not the sorta boy to pressure her cuz thats just not me. I respect her 100% and understand its her discission just wen she talks about it i think is she just saying it or does she love me enough for it to appen. Just ashout out to girls, if it was you how would you be thinking right now?
Thanks Ben
2007-03-20 06:39:39 · 5 answers · asked by Ben 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i was 14 when i lost my virginity and i thought i loved this guy, but when weeks past i felt like gross out, i don't want to see him. i still go to school and all so i see him around and every time i see him i just have to get away... so i will just wait till she is older and y'all make sure that y'all really love each other... cause you would lose everything.
2007-03-20 06:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kayce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your g/f has some common sense. Here are some NEW FACTS for you about sex sonny. 1. Sex makes babies,(YES IT'S TRUE! sex makes babies!), 2. ALL birth control has a failure rate!I see it all the time on here, the b/c pill was forgotten the condom broke or the pill didn't work etc. they get to know one another better and then break up. 3. EVERY time you have sex you risk making a baby, 4.You do not know one another as well as you think.Your reaction to her answer and her reaction to your sex question proves it. 5.Unless you are married have a job, that can support a wife and kid then you are NOT ready for the RESPONSIBILITIES that come WITH sex,therefore you are NOT ready for sex and the time is all wrong.Should she get pregnant, the child will need a stable 2 parent home. Just apologize to her and tell her you will wait until you are married to her if that happens,if not, then you won't be having sex.If you would break up with her over this, then your relationship on your part is just about sex and you may as well get a hooker.
2016-03-29 08:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats hard you are both really young and I know guys are different from girls and have different needs than us girls, but she is 14 thats very very young but it is her decision, i would just talk to her and make sure she really wants to go through with it.
2007-03-20 06:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by princessbarbiex04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is very very young to be doing that kinda stuff. But if you both are ready and comfortable doing it then do what you think is best. If y'all decide to tho be sure to always use protection....
2007-03-20 06:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~In <3~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god i dont think i even knew what sex was when i was 14.
Please don't go through with this she will regret losing it so young.
I did and i was 17.
2007-03-20 06:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by laurie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋