Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

2007-03-19 18:37:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Do you think this is true? My boyfriend and I are always breaking up and getting back together. We have been together for 4 years and he hasn't asked me to marry him, (mostly because of the on and off again) I wonder if this time if I hold out for a ring if it would work. Has anyone you've broken up and they came back to you and changed so it worked out? Is it possible that he will really miss me so much that he would do anything?

2007-03-19 18:36:56 · 4 answers · asked by juniper 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy and he tries talking to me but it's hard for me to open up to him. I've been an introverted type of person for about four years now and although I've tried hard to change myself it hasn't worked. I just want to open up to this guy before he loses interest. How do I do this? I don't want to scare him away either =(

Thanks.

2007-03-19 18:36:49 · 16 answers · asked by april.may 3 in Singles & Dating

im a girl and i work with one of my real good friends.everything was cool we hung out every weekend, joked around.well all of the sudden she started to become clingy possessive and jealous of anyone that came around me. everytime my cell rings she wants to know who it is and what not. she laughs at things i say when its not really funny.when im lookin down or zoneing out and i look up shes stareing at me and she looks away really fast and her face gets red. when she sees me shes always smiles.when i walk by her at work she stops and turns around and watches me walk down the hall.my other friends started to work with us and now she gets all mad and possessive like she owns me. everyone i work with thinks she has feelings for me more than friend feelings i also pick up these strong vibes from her like attraction vibes almost like ha shes all mineshe gets all mad when im talkin to my other friends which are also girls then i ask her whats up and why shes mad and she says everythings fine.

2007-03-19 18:36:19 · 3 answers · asked by rockinweirdo 1 in Singles & Dating

idk if this may be kinda weird be i need sumone to say sum comforting things right now im so upset and scared im shaking and have no one to talk to its a loonng story with me and my ****** stepdad who recently umm beat me and put me in the hospital and hes like spying on me n crap n just being so ignorant and im scared if i like go to sleep he'll like come after me or kill me or sumthing, thats how terrified i am and i cant stop shaking and uuughhh

-im a christian
-i have no one to talk to right now
-please just open your heart and just be kind
-this is really not a question i know that

2007-03-19 18:34:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In a nutshell:
best friends for 3 years, just recently found out we've liked each other the whole time but didn't know. feelings are mutual BUT decided not to risk everything now and have a relationship. Said he wanted a "long lasting real serious" one when the right time comes - not now.

He's HAPPY that we're best friends again because he said he can "talk to me about everything and anything again" and not like before where he didn't know what to do, say, and was more nervous around me. He mentioned (hinted) that beautiful girls intimedate boys and says that guys always check me out b/c i have "looks". He "fishes" for answers to see if i'm interested in anyone. He says, "would u get mad if i went out w. someone in a month, 2 months?" just to get my reaction - he responded, "if i ever break up with someone, at least you'll still always be here"
when i said, "everything's gonna be normal again - guys will be at me & you'll be the friend always there" - he sounded sad...

2007-03-19 18:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's so many questions on what women want. But what I want to know is what do men want?

2007-03-19 18:33:52 · 14 answers · asked by somegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

what's has to be the most annoying thing for you when you meet a girl? or just in general, what annoys you?

2007-03-19 18:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by tortl :) 3 in Singles & Dating

Prauge seems to me to have the best "infrastructure of seduction." I came alive there and loved many women. I sit here alone with my wife in my New York apartment and cast back always to those days in Prague when I thought anything was possible. It was the sense that not everything was done by hand, in short, the inspiration of the place. Can anyone share their love stories of Prague with me?

2007-03-19 18:32:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my friend at work is constantly having to pick up the tab on anything her and her man decide to do.for instance shes going to visit him for spring break he was to suppose to buy the plane tickets a long time ago and he didnt so now she has to buy them and her 2 kids are going too..well he always ask her for money, she even said here lately shes' afraid to answer his calls he might want to borrow more money point is he never has any and she asked me for advice on how to tell to stop asking her for money and be a man..honestly im a B*tch. i'd dumb his *** . shes 28 and when she was about 16 they had a son. well he wasnt responsible then so she left him and never saw him agian till here recently she even wants to have his baby, shes suppose to move in with him in may..i try to tell her to wait i dont know what to tell her anymore but she asked for advice on him always asking for money so what should i tell her??

2007-03-19 18:32:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a nutshell:
best friends for 3 years, just recently found out we've liked each other the whole time but didn't know. feelings are mutual BUT decided not to risk everything now and have a relationship. Said he wanted a "long lasting real serious" one when the right time comes - not now.

He's HAPPY that we're best friends again because he said he can "talk to me about everything and anything again" and not like before where he didn't know what to do, say, and was more nervous around me. He mentioned (hinted) that beautiful girls intimedate boys and says that guys always check me out b/c i have "looks". He "fishes" for answers to see if i'm interested in anyone. He says, "would u get mad if i went out w. someone in a month, 2 months?" just to get my reaction - he responded, "if i ever break up with someone, at least you'll still always be here"
when i said, "everything's gonna be normal again - guys will be at me & you'll be the friend always there" - he sounded sad...

2007-03-19 18:31:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 18:31:10 · 4 answers · asked by aeilene 1 in Weddings

need help raising money

2007-03-19 18:29:36 · 6 answers · asked by THE ACTS OF POWER 2 in Singles & Dating

ive tried calling all the possible listings for him in the area i think he might be in but with no luck. he used to be in the navy but they said they cant help me. all the places ive looked up online want some major cash to do a search for him. i dont have any cash to spare; im barely surviving as it is. i really want to find my father though. ive never known him. i have so many questions for him. some medical reasons too. any ideas on where to go or what to do to find him??

2007-03-19 18:29:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why did she try this? And did him correcting her mean he doesn't want to hurt my feelings?

2007-03-19 18:28:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is moving VERY slow compared to every other relationship I have had and i'm too young to be taking excessive time so please do not tell me how taking my time is a good thing that is not what I am asking I am wondering what I could do to make her less prude, more outgoing if you know what I mean.

2007-03-19 18:28:36 · 15 answers · asked by lolatproxy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 18:28:31 · 5 answers · asked by Aileen Rocks Ur Socks 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends. She's never dated anyone, she is of legal age, and she's not shy at all. I can't tell if she's just be friendly or if it's her lack of relationship xp. She has a lot of admirers but blows them off.

She cancels plans and asks me to hang out with her. When i visit her workplace and am about to leave, she makes a sad face. She asked for a piggy back ride the other day and i carried her to the otherside of the street. When she came over, i gave her a shoulder massage while she was checking her email.

She said that the reason she likes me is because she can talk and bother me i will probably never fall for her. Then she said she was unsure about that and that her charm might rub off on me.

Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her.

2007-03-19 18:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the deal, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years we are very much in love and happy, he wants to marry me and has given me a promise ring...I've got a high sex drive and so does he but there are times when i try to start it and he turns me down saying he "doesn't want the relationship to be based on sex" or "I just want to hold you close tonight"...sometimes i find it weird i guess it's cause i am used to guys being all over me, i know he isn't cheating cause he is always with me...no time or room to cheat. so why does he turn me away?...I know i'm good cause there are more times when he wants it , then there are the times where he "just wants to hold" me. HELP!!!!

2007-03-19 18:28:00 · 11 answers · asked by TPete 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 18:25:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because we all have kids) another couple are always invited. We don't dislike these people, but don't have anything in common with them and generally don't enjoy being social with them. We also feel like the 'third wheel' when they are around because they spend a lot of time with them. Should we say something or just keep politely declining invites when it is us 6 present?

2007-03-19 18:25:23 · 8 answers · asked by Kylie 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just broke off with my ex. I am feeling good without him (as the reason we broke off is becoz he is too possesive and too ego, he dislike me going out with my fren, and also accuse me for things that i didnt do)At least, i am not under his control. But then, as time passes.. i think i miss him and also i feel like giving him another chance as he requested. What shld i do..? Once bitten twice shy, i afraid to get hurt again.

2007-03-19 18:25:16 · 10 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Singles & Dating

I m working in an N.G.O and need the caste information about the surname MUNI.
Are they SC./ST./OBC./GEN.
If u know this then plz. help me for my job.

2007-03-19 18:24:54 · 4 answers · asked by James Bond 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that my relationship is over. However I am working on a project that runs until around January 2008 and have a lease that finishes 1 January 2008.

Should I wait until these loose ends are tied up, or should I go now and face the financial consequences.

I am not in any danger and don't fear my partners actions (his emotional response however will be extreme).

Please help me get clear on this

2007-03-19 18:24:37 · 3 answers · asked by yutu34 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, this isn't really a question per sey, but I still need to vent a bit and any input would be nice.

Anyway, last Friday my so called friend took a crapload of pills and later on that night she wasn't doing so well so her boyfriend calls me and asks me what she took. I only knew one of the kinds of pills she took, so I told him about what I knew.

Anyway, the next night she calls me asking what I told him and she said I told him she took some street drugs too. I didn't say that, but since he swore on their daughters life she believes him over me.

So anyway, now she hates my guts and won't talk to me or even hear me out. I did everything I could for this girl and then some. Am I wrong for thinking she is a very ungrateful *****?

2007-03-19 18:24:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

1 year ago i asked for theories as to why my husband was not ready for children.....Still apparently wants one!!! Well it seems he is still on the same path. Still have the 2, 9 and 11 year olds and i am still getting the answer i am not ready. Its affecting our sex life(withdrawel method) as you could understand, and just last week, no withdrawing. (So i though hhmm) But i was supposed to know that he wanted me to go and get the morning after pill.... ???? So confused... Any suggestions.....
I have 2, a 9 yr old girl and 11 year old boy that he has taken on. They call him dad. He has said that he wants a baby of his own and even given me timeframes but when they come around it changes again. I just cant keep dealing with dissapointment and getting my hopes up. Been together for 5 and 1/2 years.

2007-03-19 18:24:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Honestly, we've known eachother for 7 years, and we're in our early twenties. We've been best friends for 4 and half years. At certain times in our lives we have told eachother we wanted to develop a relationship but we were in different circumstances. At the moment we are in different states, but we are still as close as we always were. Now I am still not over him, and he wants to develop a relationship with other people. The thing is I'm not and I love him. He tells me he loves me, but it wouldnt be what we both want it to be right now. He has this vision that we will be friends forever, but my heart is really devasted. I feel like I cant be his friend, but I dont want to leave the friendship. I just pretend to be alright for his sake because if I dont....I know I'll just break down in tears and cry. I have loved for many years, and I'm tired of seeing him with people that hurt him and don't deserve him. But now he has found a great girl, and I'm jealous. I don't know what to do.

2007-03-19 18:23:17 · 12 answers · asked by Liz M 1 in Friends

My boyfriend wants to watch me have sex with another women. He even said that he will take us to the bunny ranch and pay a women to pleasure me. He said that he wants to only watch and that it would be a great fantasy. I am still a little unsure. If its only for the fantasy, why not, but is there any loss of respect towards me if he is requesting this??

2007-03-19 18:23:12 · 8 answers · asked by Advice25 1 in Singles & Dating

I do him with a strap on and he likes it? Could the relationship still last if he does like it?

2007-03-19 18:21:34 · 14 answers · asked by minoru 2 in Singles & Dating

The internet dating sites, myspace.com, etc. . It just feels weird to post pictures of myself up somewhere and talk about me me me. Every time I think about doing it, I get on a site, then I start cringing

2007-03-19 18:20:59 · 18 answers · asked by freedove06 3 in Marriage & Divorce