ok everyone idk what to think or what to do help me out...how to deal with this?

Question

im a girl and i work with one of my real good friends.everything was cool we hung out every weekend, joked around.well all of the sudden she started to become clingy possessive and jealous of anyone that came around me. everytime my cell rings she wants to know who it is and what not. she laughs at things i say when its not really funny.when im lookin down or zoneing out and i look up shes stareing at me and she looks away really fast and her face gets red. when she sees me shes always smiles.when i walk by her at work she stops and turns around and watches me walk down the hall.my other friends started to work with us and now she gets all mad and possessive like she owns me. everyone i work with thinks she has feelings for me more than friend feelings i also pick up these strong vibes from her like attraction vibes almost like ha shes all mineshe gets all mad when im talkin to my other friends which are also girls then i ask her whats up and why shes mad and she says everythings fine.

Answer 1

let her know you are not that way and have no intentions of being or experimenting that way. If she wont relent then you must terminate that relationship

Answer 2

I think your friend is confused between admiration & love. Sounded like you're very warm & friendly....and maybe to you it's normal but she may not receive the same treatment from others. It's normal to have a crush on your best friend (even more when she's beautiful), but you may need to lay down basic rules if it is. Get her involved in group outings, introduce other friends to her ( a guy even better). She may then relax knowing you'll always be there as her friend.

Answer 3

Hey you said it all your self. she is hiding her feelings and she dont want you to no. But she is showing you with her actiions. I mean she is afraid to tell you .. She might think it might hurt your friend ship I might say. But Tell he rlike it is if your not into for more then just a friend then maybe it is better that you just back off of her. she might get weird on you . You never no people today.