Am I being played?

Question

I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends. She's never dated anyone, she is of legal age, and she's not shy at all. I can't tell if she's just be friendly or if it's her lack of relationship xp. She has a lot of admirers but blows them off.

She cancels plans and asks me to hang out with her. When i visit her workplace and am about to leave, she makes a sad face. She asked for a piggy back ride the other day and i carried her to the otherside of the street. When she came over, i gave her a shoulder massage while she was checking her email.

She said that the reason she likes me is because she can talk and bother me i will probably never fall for her. Then she said she was unsure about that and that her charm might rub off on me.

Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her.

she has on the other hand invited me to dinner and a movie. She has also rated me a 9 from a scale of 1-10 in hotness. In addition when i jokingly mentioned i would stretch my arms in theatres to make a move, she insisted she wanted to see it. When we went with a group of people on a seperate occasion, she insisted i sit next to her and that if i continued sitting in front of her i would block her view. We walk close together a lot and play weird games. She even took my phone, decorated, and put pix of herself making weird faces and kissing the screen. She played the piano while i was napping and then jumped on me after.

Her statement about never falling for her has thrown me off... what do you think? Could this all just be a friendship? Or is she setting me up and planning to crush me.

Answer 1

The best thing for you to do is ask her, and tell her how you are feeling about the vibe you both have. I know some people are saying she is just a friend but I don't know if that is true cause I was like that with guys until they made a move. So make a move already! The worst that can happen is you find out the answer to the question that your asking complete strangers about! LOL Good Luck-

Answer 2

Seems to me that she likes you in more than a 'just friends' way. Do you want more out of this than a just friends relationship?? And if so, does she know that you like her in more of a gf way than just a friend?? The best thing for you to do is to just talk to her and tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels about you. That is the only way you are gonna get to the heart of the matter and know for sure what is going on.

Answer 3

Wow she sounds like a great person. Just enjoy what you have and keep and open mind. If you like her, kiss her and see how she reacts. I wouldn't normally tell anyone to just randomly kiss someone, but this in case I think that's the way to. Good luck.

Answer 4

You are 100%, without a doubt, in the friend zone. And she's not playing you, just, you're a friend. If you were a girl and she was doing all this stuff it would be normal, right? You're a friend.

Answer 5

wow sounds like the beginning of something beautiful, i wish i were in your situation haha. Nah i don't think your being played, you just gotta make a move or tell her how you feel

Answer 6

YOU GUYS TOTALLY NEED TO GET TOGETHER!!

Haven't you declared something yet??? Sounds like a relationship to me. She definitely (based on what you've told us) hasnt given you the cold shoulder.

Give it a try--see what she says.

Answer 7

I think she is attracted to you so hang in there, this may turn into a full-fledged relationship.

Answer 8

BEING PLAYED?.....you're being courted and seduced you BLIND FOOL !

If you want her....she's yours!