I just broke off with my ex. I am feeling good without him (as the reason we broke off is becoz he is too possesive and too ego, he dislike me going out with my fren, and also accuse me for things that i didnt do)At least, i am not under his control. But then, as time passes.. i think i miss him and also i feel like giving him another chance as he requested. What shld i do..? Once bitten twice shy, i afraid to get hurt again.
2007-03-19 18:25:16 · 10 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, in my opinion. I don't think you should go back to him.
I think if you weren't happy when you were with him than what makes you think it will any different this time.
Anyway you may just miss him, because someone being possessive over you is now what your used to and you no longer think that there is anything wrong with it.
You and everyone deserve someone who treats you with respect and lets you be who and what you really are.
2007-03-19 18:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like its just a phase u go through after u break up.. welll i dont think u guys should go out again because of all the problems he was givin u.. maybe u will find some u deserve... and u seem pretty happy without him... go out wit ur friends and have fun... try to get ur mind off of him.. and if u still feel guilty thn just talk to him and see u guys are going to work this thing out.. coz if u wont talk 2 him abt it thn if u guys will get back together the same things will bug u over and over again.. soo think abt it
2007-03-20 01:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by a_crazy_lil_gurl_wit_mani_style 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be firm in your decisions. You seem to be unsure of yourself and afraid to get hurt again and yet you want him back. I have no clue what you want and I think you should make more new friends instead of wasting your energy on exs and you got to look forward. Not backward.
2007-03-20 01:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him why he wants a second chance. Tell him if you're going to get back with him you want him to change his habits and see if he does. If he truly cares about you he'll change for you but if he doesn't then you know that he's not serious.
2007-03-20 04:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by Confused as hell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, something in your gut told you to break it off in the first place. That's where I'd leave it, broken. There's no point in getting hurt again. If he really loved you he'd never screwed up in the first place....
2007-03-20 01:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by jonnielad04 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you made the right answer the first time. Most of the time the first answer is the right one. Good luck
2007-03-20 01:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move on an be glad your not with this Psycho!
2007-03-20 01:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know there is a reason that he is your ex don't forget that. Find someone else or just be single. -L
2007-03-20 01:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt, move on...There is someone perfect out there for you, give a new guy a chance....
2007-03-20 01:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you love him go work it out, communicate.
2007-03-20 01:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋