Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

she has a bf, who i think is a great guy, but she can't come to grip that i am seeing someone. She no longer wants to hang out. Is this normal?

2007-03-19 17:51:36 · 5 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 17:51:07 · 21 answers · asked by Macy 1 in Singles & Dating

should a girl express her feelings honestly when being pursued by a guy that she also starts to develop interest in? Or should she play it cool?
for example, when the guy asks "do u miss me?" should the girl say yes or avoid answering?

2007-03-19 17:49:28 · 6 answers · asked by YSLdolly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 17:48:57 · 3 answers · asked by shelly63795 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in High school and my parents are strict. it's about relationships.. my parents wants me to have a boyfriend ONLY after college (you see how long i have to wait?!), but the problem is i already have one.. i like him but im scared my parents will find out. Especially my stepdad! alot of our schoolmates knows that we're together (w/ the guy) . i'm just scared my mom's going to find out 'coz she has friends in school. and what if my classmates are going tell? or teachers??? or that girl whom i hate will tell her mom and her mom will tell my mom! ...pls help!!!
...and what should i do and say when they find out??
........oh, and advicing me that they would understand will not solve my problem, if ever they find out, they are STRICT!!! military-kind of strict! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-19 17:47:41 · 23 answers · asked by inluv.. 1 in Family

yeah
its confusing

2007-03-19 17:47:05 · 5 answers · asked by steviewanger 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want confirmation. I know there are many single mothers so there is no need to respond in defense of them. It is also not necessary to tell your accident stories.

2007-03-19 17:46:52 · 5 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this man for a couple months (we were friends for 5 years but were both married to other people). I live 1 1/2 hrs. away and have 4 kids....he moved back in with his parents after his divorce & has no kids but works f/t, has a good job, etc...
He seems very concerned that my kids will not like him once they know we are seeing each other...kids ain't stupid ..they know and they adore him. Still he is reluctant to do the PDA in front of them - no biggie. So I see him mostly when I visit there or when he comes here with my sister to visit...never spent a weekend 'alone' or anything....yes, we've had sex but he isn't really all that 'into' it. I mean, most guys are all over you...he likes to do stuff, go out, shoot pool....and we usually end up too tired for sex and if we do, it just o.k.
So I just figured it was a friends-with-benefits sort of situation but then he will txt me 'miss ya' and on my birthday he gave me a gift card for $100...sometimes he says

2007-03-19 17:46:24 · 17 answers · asked by Clarissa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

given a chance would ull luv a tall ,handsome ,weatish ,good looking guy ,hez still a virgin ,but only prob hez shy ,very hesitant when it comes to girls n stuff ,but really intelectuall ....
hez never felt love b4 .....would ull ,lol jus curious ... :D

2007-03-19 17:45:25 · 25 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1 in Singles & Dating

or should i feel like I was reading into something wrong

2007-03-19 17:45:07 · 7 answers · asked by shldbeencwboy 1 in Friends

and he also flirts with ur girly friends.... what im trying to say is does he just say he loves that girl for no reason or wat! or is it fake luv

2007-03-19 17:45:05 · 3 answers · asked by fabstar15 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 17:44:53 · 3 answers · asked by Crazy one 3 in Singles & Dating

is it wrong of me to feel insecure if my bf talks about other woman that are in porn? I don't know what to feel any more in a way I can say I'm kinda jealous because he's always watching porn and telling me what he likes about it like I really care to hear about how other woman turn him on. I don't know it's like it makes me feel like am not enough for him that he has to look at other woman. Or am I over reacting but I just feel like am not satisfying him it really makes me feel worthless like am not pretty enough. Is it me that is just insecure or could it be my selfesteem.that I feel threaten by other beautiful woman

2007-03-19 17:44:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...introducethemselves or simply start talking to a stranger- girl who is walking down the block?

2007-03-19 17:43:54 · 5 answers · asked by Iryna 2 in Singles & Dating

When you instant message with someone and you reply quickly to their messages as soon as you receive it, and the person on the other line takes a long time to answer your IM because he is talking to many other people (girls), is it something to get mad at, because you are being attentive and caring to talk with that person and they just treat you like any other person on their list>?
THANK YOU!

2007-03-19 17:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by Halomot 1 in Singles & Dating

in a girl??

2007-03-19 17:42:06 · 4 answers · asked by InSaNe 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Isn't it amazing that when you love someone you only see what you want to see. Even though deep down you know how they really are. My boyfriend of 14 years ( we have 2 kids) broke up with me 3 months ago. Because he's not in to me anymore, and I have gained about 20 pounds. I used to be too skinny. But now that he is gone I am seeing him for the shallow and vain person he has been all a long. How he looks in mirrors all the time. How he can't stand to get his portrait done because he does not want to see himself as aging. Our kids make him nervous and so do our animals. He says it's to much commotion. He moved in with his mother who says " He's not capable of having a family, he gets to nervous " He is the kind of person that makes decisions that effect others and he does not care who it hurts. He says he can't be responsible for my emotions. He said he's not losing any sleep over it. He already has another girlfriend. Isn't it scary how love and what you want can blind you to truth?

2007-03-19 17:42:02 · 11 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

is that all my life will add up too? is my life just a waste of carbon and other minerals.............

2007-03-19 17:41:42 · 7 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-19 17:39:48 · 36 answers · asked by Iryna 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been living with this man for 1yr 1/2. i love him very much. but lately hes been having these rage fits that scare me. hes never raised a finger to me; but he gets extremely violent in other ways. i think maybe hes bipolar or something. either way i think maybe its time i move on. but when hes gotten into these moods hes threatened to stab himself and had a knife in his hand. i also know in the past he had some phsycological problems. i guess he literally was cutting some of his skin off. when we first got together nothing like this ever happend. but lately it seems to be happening alot more. im afraid of what hell do one of these times. not to me but to himself. i couldnt watch him hurt himself. ive asked him to go get help but he says it didnt work before so it wont now. i love him so very much i really do; but im scared. i think i should leave him; but how do i do that when i think hell do something to himself. i would be forever blaming myself. i just dont know what to do

2007-03-19 17:39:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont drink, i dont do drugs, i dont party, i dont do anything. whats wrong with me?

2007-03-19 17:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by needs_lost 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife and I have been married for thirteen years now but it seems to be coming to an end now. I know I get frustrated a lot but there is so much about me that she still does not understand. I try to show her I love her but whenever we seem to be on the positive road, she starts taking me for granted. I try not to tell her cause in the past she has taken it too personal and then that leads to me just getting upset and blowing it out of proportion. I work real hard to try to give her and the kids a good life even though I know that this is taking me quicker to my grave ( I have three herniations in my lower lumbar area and one is so bad it has caused massive deterioration of the bone. Sometimes I can hardly move). Yet I still continue. I took an m.r.i. to show her that I was not faking. Its just so difficult to understand what else I can do to make her understand that I do care about her and the kids.

2007-03-19 17:38:51 · 20 answers · asked by osito 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 17:36:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The past couple of weekends, I have been going to visit a couple of friends of mine, just hanging out. Well, they have friends that play in a band. When I met the lead guitarist, I knew their was something that I liked about him. He was very modest, didnt show off, was quiet, but very nice. Then I met his friend (Jim) who was the lead singer and also played electric guitar. I thought he was really cute and that I could possibly be interested in him. But then last night I talked to the first guy I liked (the lead guitarist) he asked me what I thought about his friend Jim. I asked why? He said because he can be such a user sometimes and a jerk. I was just curious as to why he would ask something like that when this is only the 3rd time that we have hung out? What would make him say that? Why would he care? I just dont know what to do and who to go for. I very confused.

2007-03-19 17:35:23 · 3 answers · asked by waterskiblond 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother and i are really close and hes having his wedding in july and i just want him to see before the wedding what a ***** his mrs is and that hes really sure he knows what hes doing. i get along with his mrs but only cause hes my big brother and i love him to death and dont want him to get hurt latter in life. he has such a big heart and i dont like sitting back seeing the things she dose on perpose. shes tryed more then once to turn him agenst me and it just has never worked. shes tryed it also with my mum. i dont think she likes him having much to do with us and im really worryed for him.

2007-03-19 17:35:15 · 6 answers · asked by ang r 2 in Weddings

I'm sitting here crying right now. I just instant messages a guy I used to talk to & he told me he's done with me. It really hurts because I have done everything for this guy and even been through everything with him, even a miscarriage. He wasnt even at the hospital with me. All my friends told me to stop talking to him, but I didnt. I tried the make him miss me thing and it didnt work, I gave in & thats when he basically said to leave him alone. I got back with my ex because I don't want to be alone, but I know thats not what I truly want..all my friends always say "you're so pretty", well if thats the case, why don't any guys ever talk to me. Ever! Its gotten to the point where I can't even focus on my school work & this school isnt cheap either! Can anyone please offer me helpful advice...i'm tired of crying and being depressed, and running back to my exes all the time. I just want to focus on myself...and I cant because I am dwelling on them all the time & i know they arent on me.

2007-03-19 17:34:53 · 15 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4 in Singles & Dating

My high school prom is coming up and I really really want to go. The problem is I'm an underclassman and only the upperclassman are allowed to go. But if an underclassmen is asked by and upperclassman, then the underclassman can go with them.
I'm good friends with an upperclassman and I know he really loves me and wants to ask me to go to the prom with him. His friends tell me this, my friends tell me this, and he makes it clear as day and makes no attempt to deny it when people say it. Everyone except my closest friends think I like him too. But I don't like him as anything more than a friend.

If I said yes to him when (if) he askes me would this be horribly selfish?
Brutally honest answers are not only welcomed but highly encouraged. Thanks guys!

2007-03-19 17:34:53 · 13 answers · asked by janedoe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 17:34:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy that i really like and i have been thinking about him almost all the time in the past couple of weeks, but he joined the air force and wasn't suppose to leave until may, but left last monday-- we never really talked before, but i feel like i know him because of what my friends have told me... i'm so confused, does anybody have any advice?

2007-03-19 17:34:31 · 3 answers · asked by meg y 2 in Singles & Dating

you never have sex anymore after being married for over twenty years?

2007-03-19 17:34:06 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ liz ♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce