am I wrong?

Question

is it wrong of me to feel insecure if my bf talks about other woman that are in porn? I don't know what to feel any more in a way I can say I'm kinda jealous because he's always watching porn and telling me what he likes about it like I really care to hear about how other woman turn him on. I don't know it's like it makes me feel like am not enough for him that he has to look at other woman. Or am I over reacting but I just feel like am not satisfying him it really makes me feel worthless like am not pretty enough. Is it me that is just insecure or could it be my selfesteem.that I feel threaten by other beautiful woman

Answer 1

Insecure? Yes, you're wrong.

Annoyed? You're not wrong.

Tell him it's disrespectful to you to bring that kind of subject up more than once in a great while.

But tell him if there's anything he'd like you to do that you're not doing already, you're VERY open-minded to talking about it -- and if he wants to use visual aids in describing such things, that's a total exception to the rule you just laid down.

Then whatever he wants, either give it to him -- or, if you don't want to do that, then definitely suggest a compromise that meets him part way.