My brother and i are really close and hes having his wedding in july and i just want him to see before the wedding what a ***** his mrs is and that hes really sure he knows what hes doing. i get along with his mrs but only cause hes my big brother and i love him to death and dont want him to get hurt latter in life. he has such a big heart and i dont like sitting back seeing the things she dose on perpose. shes tryed more then once to turn him agenst me and it just has never worked. shes tryed it also with my mum. i dont think she likes him having much to do with us and im really worryed for him.
2007-03-19 17:35:15 · 6 answers · asked by ang r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
There is a very good chance she is jealous over the relationship he has with you & your mother.
A man is to leave his father & mother & unite with his wife, but he isn't told to forget he has a family. And I will wager that this wife will do everything she can to keep you apart.
Been there, done that.
You can't make him see what he can't. You might want to get him off to himself & tell him you have concerns, but don't go too in depth as you don't want to alienate him.
He is a grown man, making grown man decisions. And he sees something in this woman. (Don't you sometimes wonder what?)
The only thing I can tell you to do is that there is going to be heartache for you. And that someday, IF he ever sees, you will need to be there for him.
2007-03-19 17:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be supportive of him. Ask him if he is sure that this is what he wants to to, if he is ready for the commitment. Let him discover on his own what she is like. Maybe try to get to know her as HE sees her. (if possible) Jokingly say that a prenup is always good thing. Do not act in a way or give her ammunition so that she can push you out of his life. Accept her as well as you can. Tell him that honestly you think hes making a big mistake, but if it is what he really wants, you will have his back no matter what and will say no more on the subject. Then do the accepting thing fully.
2007-03-20 00:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Stinging Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look - he is obviously in love and there is nothing you can do or say right now. Best case - she is the perfect match for him and he will live happily ever after. Worst case - total B.... and you will be there for him. There is no in between. Wait and see.
2007-03-20 00:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay out of it, if what you think is true, then its his mistake to handle. You will only jeopardize the relationship you have now... by trying to make her out a bad person. She is his choice and if he 's making a bad one, its his to make.
2007-03-20 00:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will find it out on his own, If you do anything about it he will only resent you. Just give it time, he will find out her true colors
2007-03-20 00:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately the harder you try to get him to see her true colors, the more you're going to push him away. He's going to have to see it for himself.
2007-03-20 00:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by v-ray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋