Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

In your opinion. What makes a wife ideal and how must she be?

2007-03-19 17:00:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I really respect my girl.she was a virgin when i met her.i have been with her for 3 years,everything seemed to be working fine.we had a great sex life and all.we used to watch adult movies together9she was reluctant at first but i managed to convince her)when we watched lesbo movies she got really tense and uncomfortable.a year ago,she told me she has started developing interest for women.I accepted full responsibity for her confused sexuality cos i introduced her to it...the movies and all(that is what she told me)
i thought it was a phase and that she would grow out of it.after a year now she is so into it that she wants a threesome.to any other guy this would be heaven.but not for me. i really love her and do not want anyone to be with her and touch her intimately...definately not a woman.i feel very inadequate.
my question is howdo i get what i had back.i want my innocent african virgin who wanted me to show her everything back.my baby has turned into a wild girl.it scares me.

2007-03-19 17:00:16 · 1 answers · asked by kwabral y 1 in Singles & Dating

for those of you girls that say no, please answer honestly. Have you ever looked a hot girl up and down and wanted to make out with her.

2007-03-19 17:00:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In your opinion what is the perfect wife and how must she be?

2007-03-19 16:59:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for acting class or a play?

We have been married several years. A kiss to me is very important. I know for some it's not a big deal and other women have kissed several men before. But I have only kissed one..and that is my husband. He was my VERY first kiss a a and that been very special to me. He kissed other girls before meeting me and now has been kissing them in acting class and will during this play. Now he has the option to just kiss them on the cheek since class isn't "filming a tv show or movie". I told him if it he was ever lucky enough to film a tv show or movie and had to kiss someone else that it would be different..but is it really nessarary to "Practice kissing someone else?" This is really bothering me and even hurt worse when he said it's not a big deal.."It's just a kiss." Now he's putting on a play "It's NOT a big play", just a small community play, and he could very well ask to just kiss on the cheek but he said it's look better to kiss on the lips? I'm upset.

2007-03-19 16:59:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If she smokes, she "pokes"? Are all smokers slutty? I know hookers and strippers are smokers. Is this just a coincidence or a pattern?

2007-03-19 16:59:17 · 1 answers · asked by Justin G 4 in Singles & Dating

Do some girls like only bad guys and get bored by sweet guys?
Or do all girls like for a man to be sweet.
is it different for teen agers

2007-03-19 16:58:52 · 6 answers · asked by Appollo 2 in Singles & Dating

does that mean?

2007-03-19 16:58:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were best of friends since h.s and we've been friends for more than a decade now. we are more like sisters and we knew wats going on w each others lives. just recently we had a miscommunication w/c resulted to her not talking to me anymore. her bf happend to know that she was thinking of stayng at her aunt's place and that wud mean their communication wud be restrictd. she got angry w/ me thinking i intentionally 2ld her bf. wat happend was her bf read the conversation me and my bf had that nyt they fought, her bf is the elder brother of my bf, and he happend to borrow my bf's phone, that's how he knew about my friend's thoughts and he kept bugging me of wat my friend told me. i explain to my friend that i didnt talk to her bf about it even if he bugged me of infos. she is even jealous of me because im close to her bf, thats wat i found out thru my bf... how do i resolve this issues w her? we may not really bring back the closeness we once had but i want closure for this issues....

2007-03-19 16:57:49 · 6 answers · asked by tangerine b 2 in Friends

2007-03-19 16:57:45 · 7 answers · asked by dab1121 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a special male friend whom I normally get along with rather well. We got into an argument last week and I said "F*** you." He's really upset now and pretty much can't forgive me. I can't say he deserved it. The argument wasn't so heated that it needed to go there, and now i feel bad. I've apologize repeatedly, but he's ignored me. Giving it time is just too hard. what do I do??

2007-03-19 16:57:43 · 14 answers · asked by MaggieMaeBrowne 2 in Singles & Dating

WHY? and how do i fix this im totally nice to everyone!!!

2007-03-19 16:56:48 · 1 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 in Singles & Dating

When i was 22 (and unmarried), I met a married woman at a bar/ club. She was older, but still relatively attractive and our personalities just clicked. she was out with her friends. seemed to be happy enough about her life, and wasn't outto pick up a guy - she was taken aback by the whole thing.

It turned into a romp in the back seat of her truck.

So now my wife, 43, and a 7 out of 10 for her age, goes out with her freinds dancing once a month, more or less. They have a real blast. She’s come home tipsy. At least one of her freinds, I know, has a small reputation for fluziness. I come to learn she carries a rubber in her purse. i ask why . . . she said she and her freidns agreed they'd all always carry one because of a scare that happened to a mutual freind. its not to use, she assured, it 'just in case'

just in case of what?

i think about it - we’ve been married 17 years and we are very stable, but we don't have a whole lot of sex anymore. I know this seems like heressy to the male religion - but I just don’t want it all that much. I mean, even if we broke up, I can’t see myself being anything but a bachelor and loving it. But I love being with her, and i highly highly doubt she'd ever leave me -she’s not going to throw it all away - and I know there are moralists who would love to have me believe this is the death knell for me and her, but I know in the worst case scenario its not. but with all of that said, could she have gotten boinked or be open to the possibility?

and if so should i get mad? On the one hand, I think what goes around comes around. More importantly, crazy as it sounds, I feel like good for her . . . don't she deserve some?

I kind of feel like I’d like to talk to her - like tell her that if ‘just in case’ has happened or happens its not the end for us, but I want her to observe some minimum ground rules that are important to me. But how does a woman react to that sort of thing?

2007-03-19 16:56:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im a really quiet girl. I mostly listen but will talk when someone approaches me. Online i can just easily joke and talk freely but when i talk in person i just get really awkward.

2007-03-19 16:56:01 · 15 answers · asked by juliavril7 2 in Friends

How much more do you make? Is it a problem withe you or him? Just curious.

2007-03-19 16:55:54 · 9 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I tell them to not depend on me always...its hard for me co'z I'm not outspoken ..

2007-03-19 16:55:50 · 2 answers · asked by joypetite 1 in Friends

Do you really want to live forever,forever and ever..forever young!!Do you remember this tune when it was remixed and turned into a clubby tune??
I`ve always loved it!!

2007-03-19 16:55:42 · 12 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

My uncle is a plastic surgeon and at my friends wedding I decided to add in the toast that my uncle did her fiance's sex change. It turns out she didn't know he had one. Did I make a mistake?

2007-03-19 16:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a crush on this guy, but he has a twin brother who i also have a crush on. The only thing is that i think that the brother is more outgoing that the other guy, but i like him cause we have a lot in common. I'm kinda saying i like them both. I need advice please!

2007-03-19 16:55:19 · 20 answers · asked by DeeCordova 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in college and live very far away from my family. About 3 months ago, I got a bad news from my mother, that she is diagnosed with a brain tumor. I have not seen my mother in a while and in a fews day im heading home for spring break. However everytime i think about facing my mother, i feel repelled and I dont want to meet her. I feel like staying in college because I dont want to meet her. Why am I so scared to meet my own mother?

2007-03-19 16:54:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

K so theres this girl... and I think i like her. She asks me to study with her every weekend and weve known each other about 6 weeks. Even when theres nothing to study, she still calls me over. I gave her flowers for vday and she hasnt acted differently around me since then. She texts me a lot and my inbox is full of her texts. Does she like me? Also, if u think she does, what do i do to tell her how i feel and what words do i use?

2007-03-19 16:54:04 · 10 answers · asked by Some B 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in college and live very far away from my family. About 3 months ago, I got a bad news from my mother, that she is diagnosed with a brain tumor. I have not seen my mother in a while and in a fews day im heading home for spring break. However everytime i think about facing my mother, i feel repelled and I dont want to meet her. I feel like staying in college because I dont want to meet her. Why am I so scared to meet my own mother?

2007-03-19 16:53:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There was a major accident in our city. A drunk driver ran over and killed a very close and dear friend of mine. I might be wrong, but I truly think that I still loved him. I love him more than a friend. I had known him for over 6years now. We talked to much back then and i felt something for him...he knew but he wanted to know me more before we continued. However, he loved to date and cheat so that kept me away...He eventually started dating someone and became committed so i did too...I went on and i meet my now fiancee...Me and my fiancee have been together ever since with the exception of 4months during these six years. We broke up and during that time me and my friend rekindled our friendship...we txt and chatted..and once in a great while talked on the phone...by now he had been married (he claimed divorced but im not sure he was cuz according to the obituary he was still married..its a long story...but anyway. I do love my fiance and he supported me through it ...

2007-03-19 16:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by Unique C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 16:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by Caribou2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I like a guy who I danced with in a play (and he screwed up in the middle of it but all the same). Since then he has been nice...but we dont talk because:
A) we arnt friends
B) his best friend hates my best friend
C) we hang out with different groups

Thair have been incidents that have confused me though. Like:
A) Him wispering in my ear when he was sitting behind me
B) him sighning my yearbook with a nice, long, message, about howI was the best dancer (eventhough i suck).
C) he teases me, like picking up a pice of papper that i asked for back and opening it and reading it.
We take 2 classes together though, but he only talks to me in the one whare his bestfriends arent in.
What should I do? does he like me? Or should I just try to get over him?

2007-03-19 16:52:49 · 8 answers · asked by mads4u283 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 16:52:34 · 11 answers · asked by Out of the Blue 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 16:52:17 · 11 answers · asked by Vovó (Grandma) 7 in Family

Ok so I like a guy who I danced with in a play (and he screwed up in the middle of it but all the same). Since then he has been nice...but we dont talk because:
A) we arnt friends
B) his best friend hates my best friend
C) we hang out with different groups

Thair have been incidents that have confused me though. Like:
A) Him wispering in my ear when he was sitting behind me
B) him sighning my yearbook with a nice, long, message, about howI was the best dancer (eventhough i suck).
C) he teases me, like picking up a pice of papper that i asked for back and opening it and reading it.
We take 2 classes together though, but he only talks to me in the one whare his bestfriends arent in.
What should I do? does he like me? Or should I just try to et over him?

2007-03-19 16:52:12 · 8 answers · asked by mads4u283 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend got in a fight , and he thinks i dont love him anymore, But I do , I dont have any money , what can I do to show him, he means the world to me, and please no rude ideas, we are saveing ourselfs , till we get married

2007-03-19 16:52:05 · 10 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

over sex

2007-03-19 16:51:59 · 1 answers · asked by sara m 1 in Singles & Dating