is this a dead end relationship,what should i do?

Question

I really respect my girl.she was a virgin when i met her.i have been with her for 3 years,everything seemed to be working fine.we had a great sex life and all.we used to watch adult movies together9she was reluctant at first but i managed to convince her)when we watched lesbo movies she got really tense and uncomfortable.a year ago,she told me she has started developing interest for women.I accepted full responsibity for her confused sexuality cos i introduced her to it...the movies and all(that is what she told me)
i thought it was a phase and that she would grow out of it.after a year now she is so into it that she wants a threesome.to any other guy this would be heaven.but not for me. i really love her and do not want anyone to be with her and touch her intimately...definately not a woman.i feel very inadequate.
my question is howdo i get what i had back.i want my innocent african virgin who wanted me to show her everything back.my baby has turned into a wild girl.it scares me.

Answer 1

You can't take responsibility for making her a lesbian...it would be the same as blaming her for making you strait, it makes no sense right? If she's really into other girls, you need to let her go, you can't make someone like you, it just happens. Just talk to her and let her know that you love her and that you have insecurities when it comes to other people being with her intimately. If she does not respect you and continues to push for a threesome no matter how much you tell her you're uncomfortable with it, then you seriously need to break away from the relationship and let her sort out what she really wants. Don't set yourself up to be in a dead end relationship, leave before it hurts you more! Good Luck!
A.L.