I have a special male friend whom I normally get along with rather well. We got into an argument last week and I said "F*** you." He's really upset now and pretty much can't forgive me. I can't say he deserved it. The argument wasn't so heated that it needed to go there, and now i feel bad. I've apologize repeatedly, but he's ignored me. Giving it time is just too hard. what do I do??
2007-03-19 16:57:43 · 14 answers · asked by MaggieMaeBrowne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All you can do is give it time and if he is your true friend he will come around it will be ok good luck
2007-03-19 17:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is definitely part of it. Some people forgive faster than others while for some it takes longer. In the mean time, try to do more than saying "'sorry". Do something really thoughtful and sweet....something that would make him feel special....and admit to him that you did not mean to say what you said. Just keep being nice, eventually he'll forgive you.
2007-03-19 17:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by giovanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of friends do you have that after one argument they are done with you. They are only words, and yeah you probably pissed them off at the time, but they need to either get over it, or you need to move along. You made the first step, if they dont want to let it go, then your better off without them.
2007-03-19 17:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll get over it. If he doesn't - he's too sensitive to be a friend. Real friends will understand that sh&t happens and people say things they don't mean.
Then again, if you *really meant it when you said F** you, then maybe you weren't meant to be friends in the first place.
2007-03-19 17:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by J C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my father had a saying, open mouth insert foot. you did a good job of that one.
another is think before you speak. on that one you failed.
to everything you say and do there is a consequence. so, think twice before you say something you might regret!!!
you can never take back what you have already done.
sorry, you blew it, now you live with the consequences!
2007-03-19 17:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why need to show him ur weakness? it will be make him pride. Just keep ur personality and try to make him convinced, if he dint convinced then ignore him. No need to love that kind of man who haven't any forgiveness.
2007-03-19 18:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Rifat Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess he's just too angry. let him cool down first or if u really can't wait, just send me an e-mail or text msg explaining ur regrets now and how u shouldn't have done it..all the best!
2007-03-19 17:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live and learn. You can't talk to your friends like that. I'd ignore you too.
2007-03-19 17:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it one more time to apologize, and tell him you reallyl didn't mean it. and that you were mad, and it just pop out. give him time he will get over it. in the mean time have fun with other friends. good luck.
2007-03-19 17:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋