I have a crush on this guy, but he has a twin brother who i also have a crush on. The only thing is that i think that the brother is more outgoing that the other guy, but i like him cause we have a lot in common. I'm kinda saying i like them both. I need advice please!
2007-03-19 16:55:19 · 20 answers · asked by DeeCordova 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you need to think about which one you talk to more..which one you are more compatible with and stuff like that. If you're looking for a relationship or even dating, having both of them would not be a good idea. You need to decide which you like better and then move forward from there. Good luck hun!
2007-03-19 16:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't the first person I have seen fall in love with a set of twins...Are they identical? If they are, and you are attracted to both, even if you like one a little and one a lot, you may be better off not being with either. It could get really messy. Twins so often are closer than other siblings, and having a girl caught between them could be trouble. So, unless you find it possible to just crush on one of them , I'd just stay away.
2007-03-20 00:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell both of them you have a twin sister. The n work it out so "you" get involved with the guy, and your "twin sister" gets involved with the guy's twin brother. The only logistical problem is that you and your twin sister cannot ever be seen together, so you will have to invent a story line that explains why. This way you get both of them.
2007-03-20 00:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, of course you would like them both if they're twins. I think the important thing is what they want. You want to be with the one that likes you the most. As twins they are going to have to face the fact that they can't both marry the same girl, so they need to figure that out anyway.
I'd let them both know that you like them and ask them to choose which one you should go out with. I know that sounds wierd, but twin situations are wierd anyway.
2007-03-19 23:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by Julian A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, not your...other organ. Intellectual stimuli is as important as physical attraction, and the more you understand each other, the easier conversation will flow, and the better the relationship will be. Just being more outgoing doesn't mean that he will be better for you. And the quiet ones often have hidden depths, to be drawn out over time. Stick to he whom you have more in common - it's a better deal in the end.
Good luck!
2007-03-20 00:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide first who you wanted more because you cant have both at the same time. maybe now you are enjoying your life but then, one day you will just realized everything is much more complicated and in the end you loss them. so, who became the loser? YOU!
better think of the future which you think is most best for you!
dont be greedy and selfish - keep that in mind.
2007-03-20 00:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by leoNpari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a crush on both of them if you want, there's nothing wrong with that. If you're talking about which one you want to date, then there's a problem. Then you need to pick one, and it should be the one that treats you right and who you aren't hesitant about.
2007-03-20 00:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would arrange to hang out with the brothers one at a time and get to know them better before asking one out. You will then know which one fits your interests best.
Good luck.
2007-03-19 23:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by Puss in Boots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for the laugh. Whatever you do, I'd only advise dating one of them. You may be out of their lives someday but they will always be together and don't need girl problems beween them. This would be very unfair of a girl not to take this into consideration. Anyway, good luck with ONE of them.
2007-03-20 00:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take time to know them as a friend and don't treat them as a date. As time pass by focus on one. Cheers.
2007-03-20 00:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋