you never have sex anymore after being married for over twenty years?
2007-03-19 17:34:06 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ liz ♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oops my bad ,I mean marriage.
2007-03-20 07:16:17 · update #1
Maybe, maybe not. Try to find out why you never have sex. You or your spouse might need to see a doctor; sometimes there is a medical reason for that.
2007-03-19 17:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex does not mean it is over... now if there is no sex because one person has lost interest in their partner then it is time for some good communication. Hopefully if the two people can talk about the lack of sex they can rebuild their trust and intimacy. It may be an up-hill battle if the person who is not interested in a sex life does not view the situation as a problem. A healthy love life is a great thing but there are a lot of sexless relationships out there so it does not mean the marriage is over.
2007-03-20 00:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the two of you are in good health then no. are you open with each other enough so you can sit and talk about why you don't have sex anymore.you know the best sex is spontanious .romance leads to great sex. try just cuddling with him on the sofa talking smooching like when you two were younger. leaning over kissing him touching his face and telling him how much you love him and what being with him all those years ment to you.love is the most wonderful thing in the world. good luck in getting closer
2007-03-20 01:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just because you dont have sex anymore doesnt mean that the marriage is over. It just means that sex has become less important in the marriage. talk it over with your partner and let him know of all that bothers you. It makes things alot easier on you and on him.
2007-03-20 00:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by fazugosgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is over though it doesn't necessarily means divorce is coming. Things are just routine. Both sides are happy with the kids and the possessions they have, or what they don't want to lose. So they do their own things. Lots of couples are like that.
2007-03-20 00:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over if you want it to be over...
sex isn't all in a relationship... or so I think...
but if you don't want the marriage to be over.. then don't let it be... work it out.... don't give up that easy....
...my parents have been married for 21 years now.. they had their good times and bad... mostly bad but they try to work it out ....
so dont' give up :)
2007-03-20 00:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I hardly have sex anymore, but I know that I still love him. You have to ask yourself several questions...can I live without him, do I WANT to live without him...does he still make me happy, do I still get excited when he comes home from a hard days work.....and.....sex isn't everything in a relationship...yes, it's nice to have every now and again. I truly hope it works out for you in the long run...either way
2007-03-20 00:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Safaia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be in a coma. Shock the heck out of your spouse. That may revive things. Good Luck!
2007-03-20 00:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ruthie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.. love is deeper than just sex. There's more into marriage than sex.
2007-03-20 01:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by fede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to Tango,you can lose your sex appeal for one another at any time in juncture,so spice it up.Make plans to go out on Dates.Bring flowers to her.Tell her you want to romance her.The intimacy will follow...
2007-03-20 00:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋