1 year ago i asked for theories as to why my husband was not ready for children.....Still apparently wants one!!! Well it seems he is still on the same path. Still have the 2, 9 and 11 year olds and i am still getting the answer i am not ready. Its affecting our sex life(withdrawel method) as you could understand, and just last week, no withdrawing. (So i though hhmm) But i was supposed to know that he wanted me to go and get the morning after pill.... ???? So confused... Any suggestions.....
I have 2, a 9 yr old girl and 11 year old boy that he has taken on. They call him dad. He has said that he wants a baby of his own and even given me timeframes but when they come around it changes again. I just cant keep dealing with dissapointment and getting my hopes up. Been together for 5 and 1/2 years.
2007-03-19 18:24:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No i have 2 children from a previous relationship aged 9 and 11.....
2007-03-19 18:28:47 · update #1
We are married!!
2007-03-19 18:42:12 · update #2
Ask him if he honestly wants more kids.Tell him you are ready now,but won't be forever,so to be honest about when or if.Maybe he is pretty happy with the ones you have?
P.S.That method is actually pretty unreliable,so you may just get your wish anyway!!
2007-03-20 22:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever asked him why he seems to not want one. I'm sure you have, but it is an obvious question. Maybe you should seek some counseling or a pastor for this one.
P.S. I think you only mean 2 kids right, and 11 and a 9 year old.
2007-03-19 18:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by dnsnowden 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he would like a child that he took part in making but is worried on how to come up with the extra cash for food, clothes & college for a FOURTH child. As we all know kids are very expensive. All the professionals I know who make very good money only have two kids because they can not afford more than that. Ofcourse if you guys have lots of money then that's not the reason.
2007-03-19 19:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by adventuregirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
????????you have been together 5 1/2 years and have a 2 year old that isn't his? Maybe thats why he isn't ready.
2007-03-19 18:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just get pregnant. I am sure if he is faced with the fact you are pregnant he will except it and grow excited as you grow. If he doesn't you are still getting what you want and he wasn't really all that loving anyhow.
2007-03-19 18:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask the man. Since he is the iniator. He is one confused guy and maybe you need to speak to him.
2007-03-19 18:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't want to have kids with you. He is just using you for sex. Move on.
2007-03-19 18:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by Atheist Eye Candy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe three kids in teh house is enough for him.
2007-03-19 18:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ed D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
speak to him or else get counselling.
2007-03-19 20:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋