My boyfriend wants to watch me have sex with another women. He even said that he will take us to the bunny ranch and pay a women to pleasure me. He said that he wants to only watch and that it would be a great fantasy. I am still a little unsure. If its only for the fantasy, why not, but is there any loss of respect towards me if he is requesting this??
2007-03-19 18:23:12 · 8 answers · asked by Advice25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a great fantasy , your the best
2007-03-19 18:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by TEBOE7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are not cattle they can not be put on display.why will you even encourage this stupid fantasy from a man who could leave you at anytime.Please know that the love a woman gives to a man is a treasure so divine.to hand your love to him for nothing and have him demand even more is impudent.If it is only for the fantasy let him take his sister.there is no future in this relationship.
what would you tell your daughters?
2007-03-20 01:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Moonlite or light Bunny Ranch, ask for Air Force Amy LOL...We all may be able top watch you on HBO...
It just a fantasy, you know him, so only you would know if he is being disrespectful...I personally would feel disrespected...
2007-03-20 01:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on if you think that you'll lose respect for yourself. it doesn't sound like he'll lose any, and you don't have to tell anyone that you don't want to, or who you think would lose respect in you. what really matters is that you respect yourself before during and after any events like that. he should be able to respect you if you decide that you don't want to do that. maybe you don't right now but someday you might. if it is a fantasy there isn't much harm in it really and he could have far worse fantasies, but honestly its all about you, how comfortable you are with doing it and how you'll feel about yourself after you do if you do.
2007-03-20 01:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time to weigh things girl! if your boyfriend really loves you, he won't let others touch you... and wont let you feel ashamed of yourself. .fantasy still is fantasy... but for you to enact this for him is the borderline of love and respect. Sex is a sacred thing... unless you view this otherwise. But if you really both love each other, you wont compromise...
2007-03-20 01:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by elta 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation and if you are comfortable with it or not. If you would like to do it, than by all means do so. If you do not want to and he pressures you, than it is disrespect and you need a new boyfriend.
2007-03-20 01:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Interested 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it...have self respect,if your boyfriend wanted you to do that,you can tell that he has no respect for you.
2007-03-20 01:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by andrew 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i also would like to see it .. if you agree to do it make a video and post it on youtube. i really want to see this but i respect my girl too much to ask her that thing. if you do it just send the link. ok?!
2007-03-20 01:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋