My girlfriend is moving VERY slow compared to every other relationship I have had and i'm too young to be taking excessive time so please do not tell me how taking my time is a good thing that is not what I am asking I am wondering what I could do to make her less prude, more outgoing if you know what I mean.
2007-03-19 18:28:36 · 15 answers · asked by lolatproxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is not what you want sexually and you are unwilling to be patient with her, please break up with her. It sounds like you are after the sex and just want a quick fix so she will turn into the horny young vixen you desire....maybe she is just not that into you.
2007-03-19 18:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I have no Idea either one of your are. And I might say you should not rush someone to doing something that maybe there not ready for. WHat is the hurry now if you like her then you will be patience right. I hope that is. So why are you saying prude cause she wont jump in bed with you. Of if it is not that and wanting her to be more active in the bedroom then you need to talk to her ask questions. Hey not everyone is open minded as others. But Maybe your just much faster then she is .
2007-03-20 01:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by babycakes3557 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you can't force someone to be "affectionate" or the such. You have to allow her to settle into a comfort level, if you're young she's young, which means she may not be ready for a certain level of intimacy.
If you keep forcing yourself upon her, she'll withdraw quickly, sure sex and the such is important in a relationship (albeit VERY important), but she may not be ready. Don't be an *** and force her to do things she doesn't want to do. If she seems withdrawn all the time, maybe she just isn't into you? Sad yes, but the simplest thing is to just move on to greener pastures.
It's not about taking your time, it's about letting her take ENOUGH TIME FOR HER.
2007-03-20 01:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok lol. This happens a lot. If you try speeding things up it gets worse. Try taking it slow and the way she likes, it will make her like you more. Which counters to her taking more of a liking to you.
Stay around her, talk to her, make her feel comfy with you. If you haven't had your first kiss and its been a month or maybe 3 weeks, she might be choosing abstinence and is scared that she might be different. Just make her feel comfy with you and things will start taking place. It might be a little faster, but don't take is too fast.
2007-03-20 01:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my lord...she's not a lesbian because she doesn't want to hump you asap. Maybe she has class...which several of you don't seem to have. Ever think that she likes you but may have intimacy issues? Apparently not, since all you appear to be worried about is getting in her pants. I would break up with her if I were you. She doesn't deserve to be picked apart on yahoo answers because you are horny. I don't think you care about her at all if you are on here trying to find out how to make her your ho. Taking your time has nothing to do with age. Its called not being easy.
2007-03-20 01:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by MomOfThreeBoys 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How can you be too young to be taking excessive time???
You are an immature jerk and hopefully she slows right down and gives you nothing!
Just end it now and go back to the skanky type of girls you are obviously used to.
2007-03-20 01:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Find another more agreeable. Relationships, to be successful, require both parties to be on the same page. If your gf is not on the same page, either you change or change girlfriends. Your option.
2007-03-20 01:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if this one isn't doing the job then find another who will. Make sense?
2007-03-20 01:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayby she isw a virgin and with this in ,mind probaly not goin to be great sex so move on being the first isn't worth it it if you have to explain why it goes there
2007-03-20 01:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by freeby1011 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She is a Lesbian my friend so dump her and go find a new Betty to hump!
2007-03-20 01:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋