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idk if this may be kinda weird be i need sumone to say sum comforting things right now im so upset and scared im shaking and have no one to talk to its a loonng story with me and my ****** stepdad who recently umm beat me and put me in the hospital and hes like spying on me n crap n just being so ignorant and im scared if i like go to sleep he'll like come after me or kill me or sumthing, thats how terrified i am and i cant stop shaking and uuughhh

-im a christian
-i have no one to talk to right now
-please just open your heart and just be kind
-this is really not a question i know that

2007-03-19 18:34:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

- i know u prolly think well just leave, i have no car,no ,money at the moment and no where to go (living with mom,stepdad,baby brother)

2007-03-19 18:36:16 · update #1

16 answers

Let's take a look spiritually at your situation since there is always a spiritual connection. The beating? The early believers received the same punishment for their faith. The devil is in the process of sabotaging you in the'starting blocks' of your life. He feels as if he can sow the seeds of trauma now they will lead to anger,bitterness, hate, etc now and later on in your life. You say you are a Christian so I am approaching what you have written as such. You are being 'sifted like wheat' as the scriptures say. The devil is using your step dad as a vessel to torment you because of who you are in Christ. Your step dad is not going to kill you but due to the fact that you live for Christ, you are a threat to Satan's kingdom. He is going to do whatever he can to stop you. What is also occurring is the devil is trying to distract you from doing the work of Christ by sending someone who has infiltrated your life,someone who is close to you, to harrass you. You do have someone to talk to,God. You also should talk to a minister or counselor at your school. It sounds as if you were assaulted so the police should be involved. There is help for you.
Pray,talk to God. He cares about you. Ask Him to cast out your fear. Talk to someone you know and tell whoever you talk to what is going on.

2007-03-19 18:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by LORD BALTIMORE 3 · 0 0

There are help lines you can call, wich you would have to get to a neighbors house to do that, but stay calm, everything will be okay and i know i dont reallly know you but, it sounds like you could use a shouder to cry on....If only i could be there honey i would, i cant belive the things people have to go through these days, People do care and you need to know that....Keep your head up things will get better

Stay safe honey
if you ever need someone to talk to e-mail me, i also have a myspace all of that is listed on my yahoo anwsers profile..

here is the number just call and tell them what is going on,i know you might not want to, but there are just things that are out of your hands, and something needs to be done
1-800-4-A-CHILD you can call 7 days a week 24 hours a day, i know things will get better Pray, and as for me i will be praying for you...

2007-03-19 18:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Gower 2 · 1 0

Well, whatever your stepfather is doing is illegal, and you should probably just call the cops or social services but you need some evidence first. You could also talk to your mom, unless she doesn't care. If you do decide to call someone for help, you'll probably be put in a foster home/relatives house, which is probably better than being beaten.

2007-03-19 18:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Report abuse. There's usually an abuse hotline in most towns, look it up and call. Consdier calling the police. Explain that if you are returned to his control he will simplly beat you again. Witness what he has already done. Talk to the doctors and nurses. Talk to your local minister/preacher/priest and ask for help. The Court in your community can take legal custody of you if you're under 18. If you're over 18, you're entitled to be on your own. Move away. You are entitled to be loved and wanted and helped and protected. I will pray for you.

2007-03-19 18:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1 0

Hebeat you & put you in the hospital,,didnt the hospital ask who did this to you?That is when the police & child protection service steps in.They will put him in his place seeing your mother isnt.Call Department of Social Services & they will put an end to his behavior.You hould NOT have to live in fear or tolerate him beating you or hitting you in any way.

2007-03-19 18:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Since you are Christian, pray my child. I will keep you in my prayers. Why does your step-dad beat you? Does your mom know about this? Did you do something wrong? Are you pregnant? Just remember, Jesus is in your heart and he is listening to every word you are saying. Stay cool. Leave it to God's hand and trust in the Lord. Take care.

2007-03-19 18:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 1 1

Your town should have a place for battered women. A shelter
for women to stay whom are abused. They would not turn you away. They would give you a place to sleep and food, clean clothes anything you need.

2007-03-19 18:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by Starlet 3 · 1 0

You should talk with a counselor or a teacher... You really shouldnt talk with folks on the internet...

Here is a teen help line: 972.233.TEEN

If you need more help. Email me.

2007-03-19 18:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by Just A Newbie 3 · 0 0

im sorry this happened to you since your scared he is going to hurt you again you should find someway to get out of there so he wont pray and you will get helped if you need to talk you can email me

2007-03-19 18:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by *~cassie~* 4 · 0 0

you need to get out at the first opportunity -- and go to the police --- who in turn can take you to a women's shelter or the salvation army --- or safe house or whatever --- but you need to get out of there as soon as you can . good luck

2007-03-19 18:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by bill g 7 · 0 0

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