Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

Wow, just LEFT a job that had an affair (boss and subordinate) going and I couldn't stand the drama that it caused the whole organization. And here I am AGAIN in this mess! I dont' think anything has happened yet, but they are on the verge. He is in her office every chance he gets. She is late to work everyday and nothing is said. She told me that her hubby is jealous of her boss AND she told the boss that her hubby is jealous. She said she tells the boss EVERYTHING...and my question is WHY? IStn't that adding fuel to the fire? She also said the wife of the boss confronted her about their "feelings" for each other.
It has been my experience that when a boss and employee have an affair, everyone arounds them pays for their guilty feelings. He is short tempered and she is also b/c they are both married! HELP! I thought these two were Christian people.

In my line of work it is hard to find another job. I sure would if I could even though this is my first year here.

2007-03-17 04:53:07 · 13 answers · asked by sweetje6549 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The first letter is what I wrote at first. but I'm not sure about it. I want her back but I don't want to make her think I'm weak or obsessive or anything because it's long. I also want to be honest. The second letter came from someone who shortened it for me, and I like it and I think it would work but the problem is that I didn't write it. Which should I use? Here's the first one:

2007-03-17 04:53:03 · 2 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok i have been dating this guy for about four months now but..I keep on asking him back out and them dumping him for one of his friends. Everyone says we are just meant to be together but then why do i treat him this way?? Its like i ca'nt make up my mind. Hes says he wants me to be happy and he never gets mad at me when i dump him...Will he ever get mad??? Some people are starting to call me a player...I really don't like the name but i just can't seem to change my ways.Im only 14...Any advice???

2007-03-17 04:52:48 · 6 answers · asked by halleyluvu 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 04:51:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so last night me and boyfriend had sex for the first time. he pulled out and everything so i'm not worried that i am gunna get pregnant or anything but he is still kind of freakin out and i dont know what to tell him. I explained to him that i was sure we were ok and everything. but he still is kind of worried and i dont want him to be worrying over nothing. what should i tell him.. PLEASE HELP ME OUT HERE!!!

2007-03-17 04:51:43 · 5 answers · asked by Andi 2 in Singles & Dating

If your going with somebody but not real serious is it OK to play around and hope to find true love?

2007-03-17 04:51:40 · 4 answers · asked by ttpawpaw 7 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend that i being prouscuted by the city she live in .but the thing is she did not do the crime thay are saying she did but she did not do it but the city is saying she did there is nothihng on her saying she did it it all point to the informent that the city has (he drug informent) so can any one out ther help me figure it out

2007-03-17 04:51:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This guy that I used to really like, told me last week that he likes me, and he asked if I wanted to be his gf. I told him my parents don't let me have a bf, so basically no. I really like him now, so did I do the right thing?
By the way, i'm 13.

2007-03-17 04:51:36 · 18 answers · asked by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

a) Skinny
b) Average
c) Built/Muscular
d) A Little Chubby
e) Fat

2007-03-17 04:51:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are were invited to the wedding of our four-year-old son's Godparents. They informed us that due to their budget children were not allowed to attend the wedding. We don't have anyone to look after my son and six-month-old baby girl, since the people that usually babysit for us are attending the wedding. We will not attend the reception since our children are not welcome but plan to attend the church ceremony. I don't want to spend money getting a new dress to attend the ceremony, since I'm three months pregnant. I have a nice looking white summer dress totally appropriate for church. Would it be o.k. to wear it for the weddding ceremony on March 25 @ 3pm, since I won't be attending the reception?

2007-03-17 04:51:02 · 10 answers · asked by Patita 2 in Weddings

Well theres this girl i told her i liked her like 2 months ago and she said she only sees me as a friend. after like a week later i got over it. and she always asked me 2 hang out on weekends. I went to her house and had dinner with her and her parents... no guy ever comes over to her house. we played tennis me and her. she always flirts with me kicks me hugs me pushes me smiles at me and texts me a bunch. So she asked me to hang out 2 weekends ago.. and i just said i cant and sorta ignored her bnecause i was so sick of hanging out with her when i thought she said she just wants to b friends, even though i wanted 2 b more. Now its been 3 weeks and she doesnt really talk 2 me as much nemore and call or text or flirt... shes doesnt get close 2 me anymore... what happend? please help me? was she playing hard 2 get the whole time? or did she actually like me and now she doesnt like me? im so confused. what should i do

2007-03-17 04:50:59 · 3 answers · asked by Jun 1 in Singles & Dating

When we first started dating it was great, I felt great. We were only together for a year and we became prenagent and it was hard. But we made the best of it and moved in together and I was very emotional (because I was prenagent). Neither one of us were ready, I mean we are old enough (me 25 him 29) but we hadn't been together that long. Anyway things of course changed it like we are kinda just going through the motions of everyday like and don't show and attention to each other the way we used to. I love him very much and he says the same but it just doesn't feel like it used to. He asked me to marry him 3 months ago and two nights ago we called it off. We got in a fight about his mother and last night we finally taked about it. He said he doesn't feel the same anymore and without saying it made me feel like the only reason he asked me to marry him was because of our son. Don't know what to do. I love him very much and before the other night he says all the time he loves me

2007-03-17 04:50:49 · 2 answers · asked by tls 3 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy at my school and out of the blue on a feild trip he said i wuz hot but i dont think so i think i am rle ugly and i just dont get it.why is he like that?

2007-03-17 04:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by Breanna 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm only 14 and quite a number of boys told me they like me, it's weird. They are so brave to tell me but there is one boy (I like him and he likes me too) which is so shy to tell me how he likes me. One of his friend told me he likes me. It's very obvious 'cos he sometimes stares at me in class. He also sometimes play with other girls and then turn to see if I was looking. He is quite popular among girls 'cos he's funny, sweet and always tell jokes.

But I think one of my friend (I'm not very close to her) likes him too. He always talks to her but never talk to me. Should I fight with my friend to get him? Should I tell him I like him or wait for him to tell me? Because both of us are so shy, we have been waiting like almost 1 year (we like each other since 13).

Is it okay for me to like someone at this age? To me, I think it's ok 'cos it's not affecting my studies, we both are still in first class. But I just want advices. I can't tell my parents about this, they're kill me!!!

2007-03-17 04:49:01 · 9 answers · asked by blue sky 1 in Singles & Dating

This is LH.
My has been put in jail for breeching a court order to stay the hell away from me. He finds me some how. I have only a cell phone and it is unlisted. I live off the money my family sends me as I can't work. A shelter has been there 2 times but I feel I can't let him win. I know it is being stupid but I jsut want to move out of the Country and the courts will allow it but they stated they can guarantee he won't find me where I go as he is persistance with what husrting or scaring me to death.
Becasue there are two small children he will never see them I need to get this identity done under ground. There was girl in one shelter who was getting it done but she never told me who was doing it for her. I am at a lost here. I can't live off my family I need to have my life back with a fresh start someplace else.
Can anyone help me?
The police have been called so many times I jsut need to say my name and they know who I am and come. By the time they get there he is gone.

2007-03-17 04:48:59 · 14 answers · asked by L H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

cuz dat's what i usually do. thats the way it seems to be...

but i been single my whole life....so now i am having second thoughts...

2007-03-17 04:47:57 · 9 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

i was at a camp this spring break......some of my other friends were talking and one of them wanted to have a party and pool party... my other friend said why so you can see(me) in a swimsuite?! i thought it was a joke and for all i know it might have been but now i just don't know cause other people think that she is bi....so i don't know if it was ment as a joke or not?

2007-03-17 04:47:38 · 11 answers · asked by sarah h 1 in Friends

theres this really cute girl in one of my classes. she is a sophmore and i am a junior. we sit next to each other and talk to each other most of the time. how do i get to know her better

2007-03-17 04:47:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I'm dating this guy, and we have been doing more and more together, and I feel like we are going a bit too far with it. I know he loves me, but I'm afraid to tell him no. This seems kinda stupid, but I'm really confused. I'll apreciate any help I can get. Please?

2007-03-17 04:46:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we married he married me and my kids (right?), he has no kids himself, yet is always telling me that I am raising them wrong, and pretty much everything I do is wrong. Some of what he says I agree with, but not always. He has never raised kids before (mine are 5 & 7) we have been together for two years. How can I tell him that sometimes kids will be kids, he just thinks that they are monsters, and he knows best. Yet if I don't do what he thinks is right with them he gets mad and wont talk to me for days, then when he is ready to talk he says well they are not my family (just to hurt me, which it does because when he married me he married my kids too). What to do, any suggestions? Please!

2007-03-17 04:46:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Regarding "extra-marital" experimentation by consenting couples, some folks get their shorts in a knot, pontificating about the "sanctity" of the relationship and about "morality."

I submit that human experience has shown that it's more a matter of the "stakes" than the "odds," since millions of people OBVIOUSLY have no reservations or hesitations about gambling away large sums of money - even their life savings - at either tribal casinos or out in Vegas.

Clearly, it is NOT a matter of the odds, because any sane person knows that the house usually wins - but they gamble anyway.

I don't hear people preaching about the "santity" of their joint accounts.

I submit that it is not much different with a relationship. The odds for experiencing problems are far outnumbered by the pleasures, but people do it anyway, and often with no more forethought or strategy than in gambling.

I'm not saying that you shouldn't be careful with your relationship, I'm saying that people buck the odds on a

2007-03-17 04:46:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he is hot and i can't resist him. my cousin is conservative type. Vhenz (my cousin's bf and mine too) likes me because i filled up his desires what my cousin cannot give to him. My family don't know this. Everytime we had a family occasions or affair of course, they appear as couple but we took stolen glances to each other. I cannot leave him, he is so hot and passionate and romantic ( than to my cousin as I have assesed and observed).

2007-03-17 04:45:51 · 13 answers · asked by maria virginia de la aguanta ha 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 04:45:25 · 22 answers · asked by amazed !!! 4 in Friends

sympathy card and 20 bucks will be enough?

2007-03-17 04:44:56 · 9 answers · asked by kitten 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i ve been dating my boyfriend for a year now is it too soon to get married. i know it might be hard to expain when you will know but i would appreciate any honest and not silly answers

2007-03-17 04:44:36 · 32 answers · asked by karm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i have this friend, but every time i say hi to her on yahoo messenger its like she hates me, she wants to get me back for something that had nothing to do with me! and i really need help with this! i try to ask her why shes mad at me, but she just says cuz she is! i want help, and i want to be her friend, so what should i do?

2007-03-17 04:44:31 · 12 answers · asked by anna needs help!! 1 in Friends

My fiance always tells me that he thinks I don't know alot. He makes me feel as if I am stupid. Sometimes he'll agree with me that I feel that way. He doesn't apologize to me when he makes me feel that way. People say that he thinks he knows it all as well, it does seem to bother me because when he is right about something he'll rub it in. He's told me that he hates stupid people and he feels when he knows when he's right he'll let anyone know. What should I do about him thinking and acting this way all the time?

2007-03-17 04:44:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-17 04:43:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I'm 30, a Teacher, and I live a good, clean life.
However, I have certain family members who ask VERY Personal Questions to me and that makes me feel uncomfortable. Example, they will ask "how much money are you making", "does your best friend have AIDS?", etc?
I think asking questions like that is wrong--but they will keep asking me over and over. When I do answer them--they will immediatley tell other people.

I believe that I have a right to privacy---but my family members feel that we are "all family", and that I am "seceretive".Its because they are a bunch of gossiping blabbermouths that I dont tell them everything..How can I avoild Lying to them when they start asking personal questions--while being honest??!

Plus, what are you feelings about people in your family who ask personal questions ?? Is that good etiquette?

2007-03-17 04:43:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Looking for fun place to hang out and meet woman

2007-03-17 04:43:19 · 8 answers · asked by denny 4 in Singles & Dating