Well theres this girl i told her i liked her like 2 months ago and she said she only sees me as a friend. after like a week later i got over it. and she always asked me 2 hang out on weekends. I went to her house and had dinner with her and her parents... no guy ever comes over to her house. we played tennis me and her. she always flirts with me kicks me hugs me pushes me smiles at me and texts me a bunch. So she asked me to hang out 2 weekends ago.. and i just said i cant and sorta ignored her bnecause i was so sick of hanging out with her when i thought she said she just wants to b friends, even though i wanted 2 b more. Now its been 3 weeks and she doesnt really talk 2 me as much nemore and call or text or flirt... shes doesnt get close 2 me anymore... what happend? please help me? was she playing hard 2 get the whole time? or did she actually like me and now she doesnt like me? im so confused. what should i do
2007-03-17 04:50:59 · 3 answers · asked by Jun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it seems that your friend has developed feelings for you after all. After you told her about your feelings, she was unsure of her feelings for you so she literallt freaked out. After hanging out with you and seeing the person you were, she had come to develope feelings for you. By flirting with you, she's trying to basically say, "Hey, I think I like you back." She thought that perhaps by hanging out with you all the time, you would see her new feelings, but now that you've pushed her away, she has taken the message that you no longer want her. That is why now, she and you aren't talking. My suggestion, ask her again if she likes you, if she says no, then let that crush go. There are other girls out there who are welling to treat you right. Good Luck!
A.L.
2007-03-17 07:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She can't stop thinkin about u. But she wants to deny. If u really want her. I say instead of askin her out, give her a warm kiss. If she does have feelings for u, then she'll go out with u. If she doesnt, then atleast you'll know the truth and got a extra kiss.
2007-03-17 14:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Young P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the flirting that you saw was just her, treating you as a friend, and she doesn't talk to you now because you refuse to act like a friend/ hang out with her.
2007-03-17 12:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Nao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋