My fiance feels he should always be right.?

Question

My fiance always tells me that he thinks I don't know alot. He makes me feel as if I am stupid. Sometimes he'll agree with me that I feel that way. He doesn't apologize to me when he makes me feel that way. People say that he thinks he knows it all as well, it does seem to bother me because when he is right about something he'll rub it in. He's told me that he hates stupid people and he feels when he knows when he's right he'll let anyone know. What should I do about him thinking and acting this way all the time?

Answer 1

He is your fiance. So, you will have to think if you can solve this before it's too late. You don't want to feel the way you are feeling for the rest of your life. Maybe sit down and try talking to him and tell him how much it hurts you. Some people just don't realize what they are doing. If he loves you enough to spend the rest of his life with you, he will have to come closer and meet you where you are comfortable. Good luck,

Answer 2

2 alternatives:
(1)RUN don't walk ..away from this guy. He is showing all the classic signs of an abuser and you are showing signs of a victum. (Yes verbal abuse is a form of abuse and the first step towards physical)
You know what you "should" do, because if anyone else treated you like this you would tell them to get lost.
Think about it.
(2)Marry the guy and spend years trying to figure out whats "wrong" with you

Answer 3

there is nothing worst than a know it all, and it is obvious everyone else notices it. i would firmly tell him "you are saying i am stupid and i am tired of not getting any respect from you. do you realize that everyone gets tired of your superior attitude. i love you but i am not putting up with it anymore. i am going home and you can call me when your ready to treat me with some respect." girl you do not want to marry someone who thinks you are "stupid." i hope you have a long engagement because it is going to take a while for his oppinion to change. he didn't get this way overnight. when he starts acting smug tell him "i am going home, alone."

Answer 4

maybe -just maybe, he is very intelligent and wants the best for you. nobody likes to see somebody they love fall especially if they can help prevent that... you know, my father had a sign in his office that read "it's better to keep your mouth shut and let people wonder if you're a fool than to open it and remove all doubt" with this said, as long as he IS right how can anyone argue with that??? it would seems 'stupid' (using your word) to argue with something -or someone that is actually right. you wouldn't (at least i hope not) argue with the encyclopedia would you??

Answer 5

I don't like this relationship, he thinks he is better than you, and he is a know all. You will be miserable if you marry him, because something that bothers you like this one, ALWAYS makes to problem REALLY HUGE after marriage. I would really run away, and find someone who appreciates you.

Answer 6

I had a bf that told me I sounded stupid when I talked about medical things, only he was allowed to talk about such things, because he was a doctor. Then we had a fight that was about the fact he never called me stupid! He insists he was right twice.

Answer 7

supply up unbelievable out with women those with huge boobs, who cares concerning the ex besides, and do away with the dance instructor. i don't be attentive to in the experience that your immature or he's , yet, its no longer determining. the two you have faith him or you do no longer.

Answer 8

He is a control freak. Get away from him.

Answer 9

dump the jerk and pls. don't marry him if he treats you like this now imagine how it will be if you marry him

Answer 10

That's a "MAN" for you!