there is this guy at my school and out of the blue on a feild trip he said i wuz hot but i dont think so i think i am rle ugly and i just dont get it.why is he like that?
2007-03-17 04:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by Breanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, first of all, if he said that to u i dont think ur ugly! lol if u were ugly they wouldnt come and say stuff like that, they would just dont care about u! lol but guys do that because well, the ones that say that, are superficial. they just think about the physical part of u. so dont worry. :)
2007-03-17 04:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dIaNiTa♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, let me start by suggesting that you work on your self esteem. i'm confident you're not ugly, and i'm really sorry you don't believe that you're beautiful or "hot"... Perhaps you should consider counseling, only because this kind of self hatred will often determine the nature of your relationships in life. please consider it, and try showing more confidence and self acceptance.
now, boys at this age are really quite immature, so if they do it again just take it as a compliment and then brush them off with a, "thanks a lot bud." most of the time, they do these things for attention, so you needn't try and figure out their motives.
2007-03-17 12:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe he sees something you don't
but alot of guys say this too i think they think it makes you feel good to hear it
my husband tell me this all the time any more
he don't just say he loves me he tell me i'm hot just like we were still dating it's nice to hear after 3 kids and a few years
2007-03-17 11:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by country-girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all beautiful women think there not hot there is always someone out there that will like your looks no matter how ugly you say you are its proving fact
2007-03-17 11:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by stevenbarnes2560 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reverse Pyscology.
Men... (shakes head like Elias from Cleks 2)
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2007-03-17 11:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by X__to.be.lovedx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably not talkin about ur face rather than the booty, so while you think ur ugly, he doesnt really care.....he is a guy by the way, remember.
2007-03-17 11:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is right and you are wrong?
In any case, younger guys say a lot, just like
younger girls...
2007-03-17 11:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Elana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only way people can express their effection is through communication,I guess,right.?
http://www.dating.com or
http://www.communication.com
2007-03-17 11:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he wants to slip you the bone.
2007-03-17 11:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he likes you
2007-03-17 11:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋