Okay, I'm dating this guy, and we have been doing more and more together, and I feel like we are going a bit too far with it. I know he loves me, but I'm afraid to tell him no. This seems kinda stupid, but I'm really confused. I'll apreciate any help I can get. Please?
2007-03-17 04:46:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he loves you..he will respect you and your wishes.
if you feel that you are going too far..then you probably are.
trust your instinct.
don't be afraid to tell him "no"
it sounds as though he's pushing you
and rushing things too fast.....
you have everyright to say no .
if he truly loves you..he will respect your wishes and speak with you about it.
not try to convince you...but listen to what you have to say and understand.
remember this..a relationship is made of two people.!!
no..your question is not stupid..it's very natural.
i can appreciate that you care for him..but make sure that he cares for you .
2007-03-17 04:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him before it's too late. You don't want to rush things if you aren't comfortable. I made the same mistake and married a wrong guy simply because I was afraid of hurting him. Eventually, I got divorced and now my life will never be the same. So, just tell him. If you are afraid, do it in public - maybe over lunch or something. You aren't breaking up with him, but just explaining how you feel pressured. Last thing to do is to confront this issue in private and cause arguments. Good luck.
2007-03-17 11:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, like everyone else is saying, just tell him how you feel. I tell my boyfriend how I feel and it just makes things easier. Who knows, maybe the guy you're dating feels the same was as you and is just too afraid to tell you too.
2007-03-17 11:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by тαιητε∂ αηɢεℓ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk to him, why are you dating him? Think about it. You are crossing the line with someone you can't even talk to. What if you get pregnant? You will have to do some serious talking then.
2007-03-17 11:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u just have to lay down the rules if u dont want to do something then say no i dont want to do that. u cant let him do stuff u dont want to do. if he doesnt listen and respect that then dump him and find someone that will respect u for what u want and like.
2007-03-17 11:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not stupid. just tell him how you feel. Good luck.
2007-03-17 11:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be sorry. Give it up and don't worry.
2007-03-17 11:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it needs two hands to clap.
2007-03-17 11:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by sundeep s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋