he is hot and i can't resist him. my cousin is conservative type. Vhenz (my cousin's bf and mine too) likes me because i filled up his desires what my cousin cannot give to him. My family don't know this. Everytime we had a family occasions or affair of course, they appear as couple but we took stolen glances to each other. I cannot leave him, he is so hot and passionate and romantic ( than to my cousin as I have assesed and observed).
2007-03-17 04:45:51 · 13 answers · asked by maria virginia de la aguanta ha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who is he publicly with; obviously she has more to offer him, since your services are only needed behind closed doors.
2007-03-17 04:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by YaShen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you better make things clear for yourself. Are you happy and contented enough to be the girl behind doors while he is showing to the public that the love of his life is your cousin?
Guys will be guys as they say, and I'm sure Vhinz just appreciated your response to his whims, and backstabbing your own family member should be the least thing to do. I'm sure there are a lot more hot, passionate and romantic guys in the neighborhood who are free as eagle, lolz.
2007-03-25 03:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by !!!Rain!!! ! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just wrong. Once this comes to light no one will trust you around their man. You'll be banned from the family, you'll be an outsider, a skank, and a whore for ruining their relationship. The only one winning is the guy getting to bang both of you. Go find your own man.
2007-03-25 04:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by RoxanneZG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no real relationship with him you probably never will he just sees you as a object to fullfill his "desires". Its a long shot that you will be with him anyway especially if he has to hide you from everyone. Just leave him alone do you really want to sour your relationship with you cousin if and when she finds out? Find your own boyfriend sweetheart. Dont whore yourself out
2007-03-25 04:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by fuchetrookbies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also think that if it were as wonderful as it should be he would decide to be with you completely behind closed doors and in public. Obviously you are happy with the way things are now so why ask for help?
2007-03-24 13:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by Rissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to reserve a spot on the Jerry Spring Show
2007-03-17 18:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you need to end this relationship with your cousin's bf, and confess everything to your cousin. she needs to know that he's a sleaze, who'll cheat on her with one of her own family members.
that would be the most honorable thing to do.
men come and go... i doubt that you'll have trouble finding another good lover. your cousin is family and you should look out for her.
2007-03-17 04:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it could be a temporrary relation
guys do not care for that but u should but what bout u?
u do not care for ur cousion !!
stay out of troubles & try to meet another boy friend
2007-03-17 04:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is cheating on her dont you think he will cheat one you
You know WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!
and cousin, sister, friend
I WOULD NEVER STAB A SISTER and I dont mean Birth sister.
I mean another woman......... we need to stick up for each other and to me, your stabbing one of your own
2007-03-17 04:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like it , do it... if you think it feels ok .. do it.. BUt never ever tell no one in your family
2007-03-25 04:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋