When we met I loved being near him, holding his hand, hugging him, I could feel the distance between us if we were just across the room from each other. I'd never felt that way about anybody, and I'd had boyfriends before him. I know I'm not a touchy person, but with him I was. Now, 5.5 years later, I don't like to kiss him, hug him, sit by him. It's not that I don't love him, but I don't feel drawn to him at all anymore. He still always wants to be touching me and I always back off right away. I do try to make an effort because I know it hurts him that I'm not like this anymore, but it takes a huge effort on my part. When we're out I'd rather not be around him, we're the couple that sits on opposite sides of the room while all other couples are still sitting in each others laps. Sometimes I feel like we're just friends, but I know it's all on my part. Why is this?
2007-03-17
05:22:59
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