i failed in everything i do. i cant score in exam..totally a loser in my love life..why all this happen to me?? can someone tell me??? am i very bad??
2007-03-17 05:22:19 · 11 answers · asked by Chreyl S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you only a victim if you want to be. Alot of people have problems taking test. Work on not putting to much pressure on your self. And the test will become easier to take, don't make them more important than they are.And a loser in your love life , honey the right person will come along that will love you for yourself . You just haven't meet the right person and sometimes it takes along time. You need to focus on you learning to love yourself. If the truth be known this happens to alot of people . What makes you different is how you handle it.Keep your chin up , tomorrow is a brand new day.
2007-03-17 05:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Thelma C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you are in a rut right now or feeling depressed. When you're not feeling positive about yourself it's hard to study for an exam, it's difficult to be a happy and cheerful person. I don't know what happended to you that would make you feel so down about yourself. But I am certain you have some great qualities and that you need to sit down and think about what those qualities are.
Focus on the good things in your life and see how lucky you are and apprecite what you have. Don't emphasize on things you don't have, because it'll make you feel sorry for yourself. Remind yourself that this is only temporary and that you'll be ok. You are not a loser, you are not bad. We all get these feelings sometime but the trick is to change our thinking and be around people that are supportive and do things that makes us happy.
2007-03-17 05:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kaylin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to be positive and change your thinking. Try your best in studying and even if you don't score good then atleast you tried your best. If you keep thinking and saying "i m a loser" why this happen to me all the time?" then you will go no where and will not succeed. Analyze what you do wrong and change it each time you fail at something you want. Be positive. Don't complain. Just try your best. And be generous and respectful and you won't be a "loser" in your love life.
2007-03-17 05:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Legant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't score in exams - maybe you're just not a school-type of person. Maybe you can go to some trade school, learn a trade, and do a career that way. As for your love life - if you know what you want in your future spouse, just do everything you can to find that person - date people, don't waste your time on people who won't be a good spouse, and in the mean time just do things to make your life meaningful - get involved in the community, in religion, in hobbies, etc. Then you won't be a loser.
2007-03-17 05:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by WhoGalt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell you one thing i am sure you're not a loser ok you only haven't know your real self yet. believe it and some day you will get somthing that you won't regret. no one is bad. you think you not worthy but you're completely wrong i do know that you have something different from others and that's good. keep getting positif cuz life is happy
2007-03-17 05:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by asian pride 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, did you study for your exam? Are you shy around girls or something? Remember YOGOWYPI = You Only Get Out What You Put In
2007-03-17 05:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Swini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOO dont ever think dat ever again. jus because ur life hasnt bin as special as ud like dont mean its not special maybe ur love life isnt exactly perfect because ur overlooking someone who u could have a wonderful realtionship with. try lookin @ all the positive things.
2007-03-17 05:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by qUMMybEAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think your a loser then everybody is going to think that your a loser, so stop thinking your a loser and think you can do just about anything in this world.
2007-03-17 05:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't! You just have to keep trying and do better. Everyone makes mistakes in their life. You shouldn't give up just because of a few of them.
2007-03-17 05:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by poetry_dreamer2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices:
1) Keep trying
2) Give up
I know which one I would choose. Which one will you choose?
2007-03-17 05:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋