We had a "situation" and it was pretty serious, although he doesn't see it as a big problem like I do. I truly just don't have anything to say to him at this point. We haven't talked since Thursday night (we normally talk daily, and at least communicate through texts in between calls during the day) I'm considering calling it quits, but I'm not sure. He hasn't contacted me yet either, and I know he sees it as a "who's going to call first" game, but thats not what it is to me- I just don't feel like talking to him. He wont see it that way. How do I explain that when we finally do talk?
2007-03-17 05:14:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like you believe that your BF doesn't care if you are talking to him or not. If that is true, you have a bigger problem on your hands - apathy. If it is not, then you are being overly critical and need to apologize for that. In either case, you need to discuss your original problem and the after-effects it bred.
2007-03-17 05:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by i_cycle_hard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut and paste this note and send it to him:
"My BF is getting the silent treatment... what do you think?
We had a "situation" and it was pretty serious, although he doesn't see it as a big problem like I do. I truly just don't have anything to say to him at this point. We haven't talked since Thursday night (we normally talk daily, and at least communicate through texts in between calls during the day) I'm considering calling it quits, but I'm not sure. He hasn't contacted me yet either, and I know he sees it as a "who's going to call first" game, but thats not what it is to me- I just don't feel like talking to him. He wont see it that way. How do I explain that when we finally do talk?"
2007-03-17 12:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by lowroad 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell, if the both of you are doing the silent treatment thing, you will never ever get to finally talking. Quit playing those stupid games, grow up and go find each other if either of you still care about each other.
2007-03-17 12:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me if hes receiving the silent treatment and he wants to keep you, then he'll come running to you in a couple days
however, if you end up calling him he'll probably apologize immediately
2007-03-17 12:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he cares all that much. So you have not talked in a couple days...big deal. I'll bet he is happy he did not have to talk to you.
when you break down and talk to him...say whatever...he won't be listening anyway.
2007-03-17 12:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋