ok so im in 7th grade
and a guy made out with me...
on his pool table...
hes a sophmore...
at 3am...
then he fingered me...
is that like wrong?
i need helppppp
2007-03-17 05:14:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm gonna sound like your mother here....but, you shouldn't be having any sexual experiences at such a young age. You should wait until you are older and not let people take advantage of you. Could you imagine being in the 7th/8th grade and having a newborn wake you up at 3 in the morning cause it has a wet diaper or needs to be fed and then have to get up and go to school at 7? That would really suck!
2007-03-17 05:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by † Walk by Faith † 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't listen to "word u" You are not a ******* whore.
Second, stay away from this guy...he is way too old for you!
Third, if what you two did together was not consensual, as in you didn't want to do it, but you felt like he forced you to do it...then it is very wrong. Also, you are way too young to be out at 3AM...and way to young to be doing this kinda stuff with ANY guy....
Fourth, it sounds like you feel a little guilty. It happened...it is in the past...you have to move on. You can't beat yourself up about this.
Fifth, try to surround yourself with kids more your age. Get involved in an extra curricular activity, like sports or something. And don't mess with this perv again...it may make you feel good to have a high school guy hitting on you like that...but think about the situation in reverse....a high school guy trying to get it on with a 13 year old? He is a total loser and must not be able to get chicks his own age....again, stay away!
2007-03-17 05:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Courtney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all what were you doing out at 3am ? If your in 7th grade you should have been home in bed. You better hope you don't become the talk of the school say for like being easy. Yes it's like wrong unless you love this guy! but I think your to young to be in love so wait till your older!
2007-03-17 05:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by pr jazz squirm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You R too young to B getting "fingered" by guys. Especially guys older than you. Just because they're older doesn't mean that all older guys do the right things. If he didn't know how old you are, maybe that's excusable. If he knew you are in 7th grade, but he still did that, he's desperate or a big jerk.
2007-03-17 05:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Swini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could go to jail for doing that to you. You need to stay away from older boys. I'm telling you as a girl who was once in 7th grade and was attacked by a 19-year old. Thankfully my sister was able to pull him off, but I was almost raped. You do not need to put yourself in those positions. Why were you out at 3am as a 13-year old? Are you 13 yet?
2007-03-17 05:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by TilBot1007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then I think u already know the answer.
Ur still young and have plenty of time to experience all that. Now that he has gone that far with u..he might expect u to go the step further. Don't let any guy pressure u in to any thing u don't want to do.
2007-03-17 05:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Pres 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...this guy is kind of old to make out with you. ofcourse i shouldn be talking for i have been through this many times. first you have to ask yoursel "how long do i know him?" "does he really like me?" in my opinion the this situation would be wrong 1.if u regret it
2.if he hurt you..
i dont know enough about the situation to tell u exactly...but if u wanna talk about it contact me at devilseyes2@hotmail.com...
2007-03-17 05:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by meat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your parents know?
you should never make out with someone when you are in 7th grade
2007-03-17 05:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way too young to be messing around with a guy...my recommendation is to keep you pants on and hang out with friends your own age. you will regret trying to grow up too fast later in life...
2007-03-17 05:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by skittle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's crazy!! and nasty! of course it's wrong..... wait a little longer to do those things.. you have a whole life ahead of you.. yea i know your hormones are kicking in but you're still too young!! and that guy is just a nasty perv! eew!!!
2007-03-17 05:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by gaby5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋